SwinggCat's Natural Vibing Contest

I've grown up as a major wuss around women. I was that nice guy that really feared them. I thought then that if I were to approach one, that she will reject me before I say a word, tell her friends in which everyone humiliates me. Ever since getting into the "community" after reading "The Game" by Style, I begun a transformation of change. I'm still developing myself! I really want this change, because I was confined to an all boys catholic high school, which never had a gf or sex then. I'm not a soph in college and had some little success, but with only 2 women that arn't really attractive in which lost my virginity to. Them 2 kinda fell into my lap. I regret losing it by settling. I'm really on a mission to change myself and attract desirable & attractive women on campus. Everyone tells me college is soo easy to find women, but I have yet to see that, in which I will try my best to see. I don't want to waste my college years miserable. I believe that your natural vibing course will seriously help me with my game and I can really develop. I've been reading your newsletters for about a few months now and you really are on the ball with things you have to say. I really want to work on DHVing and being the prize. In addition, I want to improve on vibing and building rapport when apporaching women. I don't believe stupid pickup lines cut it anymore. With all this said Swinggcat, I seriously believe you can provide me with the material to really help me improve myself. I have faith in your material. If you make me 1 of the winners, I assure you that everything you say in that course will be learned by me. I want to do women a service by stepping up to the plate and prove that good, quality, high value men are out there for them to grab ahold of! Winner or not, thank you for helping us men to not only learn how to attract women, but helping us revive our lives. I can see that you care for all of us in which you want to see all of us men be successful. Once again thank you. -H from Chicago

I want the natural vibing course simply because i want to attract women better and live a happier life. i know i have it within me, but i don't attract them enough. i had an experience a year or two ago where my friends and i met up with some girls they knew. I didn't know these girls and wasn't particularly interested in making much effort. However, by the end of the night i was with one of them. i must have said as little as 5 sentences to her. it baffled me for awhile but when i reviewed how the night progressed, i became aware of some kind of mysterious language that had developed between us. we somehow tuned into each other and understood each others motives. It's not until i read your report on vibing that some of that mysterious fog had cleared. this is why i want the report. i felt elated by that mysterious language which i believe i somehow tapped into, and to be able to recreate that with any girl you want would make anyone a happy man. Which is the essence of what i'm looking for - happiness. i believe your book will help. - Mike

The reason I would like the natural vibing course is i'm not very good with people and would like to develop this skill so I don't need to memorize patterns and routines and fell hopeless once I'm out of material. I would like to stop using canned game entirely as I think it develops bad habits. I would love to be comfortable and relaxed in a conversation instead of being stressed and nervous. My n°1 prority is to develop awesome social skills and be good with people, not just women as I think it can open up alot of doors well beyond meeting and dating women and also help build my self esteem which is not very high. - Anonymous

Well I am at a point now in my game where I'm on the verge of taking a big leap in my progress. With women I already know, I can charm them and make a connection. Although it just doesn't happen enough. I know that there is another level I need to get to in order to really connect with virtually any girl I want to get to know. Swinggcat you want someone that is eager to learn with the potential to improve their game to new levels. I'm that man and I just need that something that's going to push me over that hump. Then I will bring much joy into the lives of the lucky ladies that cross paths with me. Nobody wants this more than I do and nothing will stop me from becoming the man I want to be. I'm still young and I'm going to enrich my life in so many ways. Until next time keep on playing player. - Denis

Im dying everyday mr. swingcat sir. i am so lost with women it is amazing! i need your help in so many ways and i think if i were to have your book, i would change into a new man. its sad to say, but i can barely call myself a man. how can i if i cant even find myself a woman. i have strength yet i dont know how to use it in the right direction. I have NO IDEA how to talk to women. Even if i were to say hello and she seemed somewhat interested, what do i say after that. i dont know how to carry on the conversation in a way that will keep her interested in me and what im saying. i have researched your work and i believe that you know what you are saying. i really want to get my hands on this natural vibing book. i dont know what to do without you mister swingcat. put some swing in my cat if u will. But i hope you can hear me out and give me a chance. i know if u pick me to get your book i wont put it to waste and you wont regret it sir! thanks a lot for your time. -justin

I'm just getting back into the game. After being in a relationship for a while and had to end it because we are not on the same pages. After just being on my first date since...I have realized I have NO skills. I NEED your help!!! I've only had 2 girlfriends, none in high school, only one in college (I spent 10 years in higher education), yeah - now your getting the picture. I suck at picking up women. JP

Why do I want the Natural Vibing course- all my life girls have chosen to be with me now I want the choice to be mine. I've been through every web page seeking knowledge on the game, I've been getting some results but cant seem to keep the women interested. I m good at opening but once I have them on phone or meet them out cant seem to keep the vibe going and the attraction starts to go down hill. Theres this hired gun that heck I was giving instinct and I know she is the girl that I know for a fact is the type of woman I've been looking for. She is different, she is beautiful wares no make up, 5'7", natural D cup tits, the hips and ass not to forget legs nice. Besides the looks, great personality, she doesn't dress slutty, she demonstrates higher value and morals, this girl is hard to find. I know if we hit it of we would end up marrying, I just don't want to screw this opportunity up. I know theres other women out there but this one does it for me. Its not like I have a crush. Let me put it this way, to me women are like cars sure I like them but I don't get hype unless I could own that car then I'm hype. Theres something about this girl! Can't let her walk out of my life, my intuition is saying she is the one I just need to make her aware of it. Thanks Swinggcat - Dadio

Hey Swinggcat. I'm sure a lot of guys will say the same thing, that they want to be more successful with women; I'm no exception, only now I'm 40 and I feel like time is running out. On the other hand, I've had nice looking women who seem to be interested in me come on to me and I blow it, one way or the other. I guess I just don't want to look back when I'm 60 and think of all the young hot girls I could have gotten because I was chickenshit. If I could learn to get the women I want, I would feel so much better about myself, enjoy life more and get on with other things I need to do, but right now I find myself staring at women, creeping them out because I'm horny and haven't gotten laid for months and that was with a fat chick! Heard this before Swinggcat? I know you have. HELP! Rob

Well first of all like many man I want to have succes with women and feel better about myself. I'm happy about the job that you are doing and is good that you are sharing it with many people. I want the Vibing course cos I want my life to improve in this subject and feel good inside and know that not only woman have the choice of picking a man they want but man have the choice of picking the woman we want too. I want it cos I wanna feel equal to them have that vibing they easily have towards us. I want to be a succesful man with woman. Carlos

Being able to read how a woman feels about me would boost my self-confidence and motivate me to give the game may all (as if there wasn't enough of a motivation). For me I have still got a lot to learn about picking up women and being able to recognize attraction is a downfall. Even when I see things that lead me to believe they like me I stay in doubt. I would truly like to put the vibing course to good use I deserve it and women deserve be with me. I just need more self-confidence. Thats it in a nut shell. Trevor

Scene 1 "...because. she. wanted. to go. be-low me." I said in my most hypnotic tone of voice. Hoping she would pick up on my subtle double meaning. Instead she just gave me a blank stare, then curls her left eyebrow and says, "Are you trying to pick me up?" "Umm ummm" I stammer as I mentally sort through pages and pages of notes that I've taken on how to handle such a 'shit test' -Not smooth...not natural Scene 2 "oh my god, you're so much fun to hang out with!" she says looking at me with big soft twinkling eyes and a little devlish grin from the corner of her mouth. I suggest that we bounce back to my place and she nods her head excitedly, stuffing her hands in my coat pockets. As I walk her to my car, I'm thinking, 'Yeah, this is how it's supposed to be, this feels Natural. Swinggcat, I want your Natural Vibing course because I think it should be natural to pick up women. I shouldn't have to mentally rifle through scores of lines or language patterns only to get stuck and not know what to do next. Thats not how its ment to be. A girl should feel like the two of you just jelled from the begining. Almost like it was ment to be. It just happened...Naturally. This is what I want for my life and the girls in it, Swiggcat. Thanks for your considerateion. -Daniel

Hey Swing My name is Mark and at the start of the year I bought you RWS e-book along with the Friends Into Lovers. I have studied many seduction guru's teachings and I have learned lots of great stuff from most of them. I really lean towards your teachings for a couple reasons. 1. Your material is applicable through any situation during the day wherever I may be, from a bar or just going about my everyday life. Also I really like the fact that you have your method of teaching that stands up on its own. It is not a variation of some other method. Many of the other great guru's I have learned from have their own style but it is in some way a derivative of other methods, on and on. Anyway, its taken me a while to incorporate all the stuff that I learned in RWS, but I have put it to use. I have seen a dramatic increase in my success with women. Also, by using your methods on how to turn a friend into lovers. I successfully turned a girl who just last year broke my heart, before I even knew about teaching such as yours. I acted like she was the prize and to make a long story short it obviously didnt work out, although originally there was some chemistry. But ever since I've adopted the philosophy that I am the prize, I have women putting themselves in position for me to capitalize, instead of running after them, chasing them. I've really internalized that being good with women is something you are as opposed to something you do. I've been looking to up my game by getting some more of your material, since I think i'm pretty stable on your main concepts from RWS. And out of the Attraction, Sexual Communications and Natural Vibing Courses, Natural Vibing seems to be the journey I would like to take first from what your recent pdf files have been dealing with. I've been dying to eat up some more of your concepts. But anyway, I know that I am not bringing this LAME-O Sad story, that I hope doesnt win like "OHHHH if I only had this course, then all my lifes troubles would be solved" or "I'm terrible with women and I need a dating guru to help me out". I know you know the type. But just rest assured that your generosity will not be in vein and I will actually get use out of it. I know you probably get a million emails a day, but it would mean a lot to me if you could just respond to me, even if I didnt win. Although believe me when I say I want it! - Bogard

FAILED RELATIONSHIPS!! The one part of my life that has been the most difficult and painful. A series of bad relationships, including a divorce, that either ended (or never even began) because of my total lack of understanding when it comes to women. Things start off fine and end with me begging for them not to leave. I have found some level of success in life, but unfortunately not the most important type, social! My sense is your Natural Vibing course would be similar to when I realized poor grades were not a result of stupidity, but rather poor approach and lack of solid information. I have found your emails to be helpful and motivating. I would be honored to recieve a copy of your course, who knows it might just change my life! - Anonymous

Hi Swinggcat, I am 34 years old. I take good care of myself (that is, I'm fit and healthy) and I take a positive, open-minded view of theworld. I really try to be the best I can be for myself and others. I have a full-time job and have been doing community volunteering for a number of years, as well. I really enjoy it. I also like going out, clubbing, holidaying, all the good stuff. But the relationship front is (and has always been) pretty thin. My problem is that womne often like me but we have no connection. Only after these women get to know me do they think I'm a good guy to be in a relationship with. Usually by that stage, they have a bf or they are no longer interested. If I could get the vibing skill down, it would help take care of an area of my life that has always been lacking. I think I deserve it. Perhaps others might deserve it more. But, I'll leave that up to you to decide. Cheers, I PS Love your work. - ivan

why would I not want it?? I am shipwrecked man. I'm not bounded to any harbour, neither do i know where the flows of conversation go or take me. I quitted my previous job at a call center 2 months ago, (I just said I QUITTED okay?, gee) because although I was speaking all day long with people / women i had never seen, and in a pretty damn safe-environment (None of these sexy-boiling voices could ever had punched me over the phone even if they spat out their vocal cords), I never arranged to have a conversation going, everything I got was chunks of dialect, grunts and nasal noises, her getting frustrated and calling back later to get another representative, I could never arrange to have the voice tone, topic and timing to bring up a simple spontanueous laugh (those laughs that interrupt the conversation for several several seconds) on her, almost all my jokes were addressed as comments and sometimes I even had to repeat them twice!!! 9 months in a row speaking in a total non sense just to realize that I might have been doing pretty much the same with all other aspects of my behavior towards girls for a looong time now, I even have defined it as "nullifying myself", if she looks me I look away, if she asks for answers I give them right away, if she accidentally touches me I just have nothing witty to say, if she stares at me in the eye I feel like my thoughts are being read out loud, i wait until she moves so I can move, what the fuck? where does this come from?, I mean I would rather scream at her when she stares at me (I doubt that could get any good result), but I am immobilized, i used to feel lost with girls when i was younger, 17, 19, but at this point in my life, 23, I am starting to feel hopeless, I thought I would learn something from those "No's" and long stares..., I am too young for this shit, and I mustn't be this lonely I need and want a damn good challenging life with amazing company, my social skills have been put to the test and failed, so as pathetic as this letter might sound, I am desperately needing advice on how to approach a woman and speak up P.S. I have the balls to go and speak up, I've shown it to friends, I just don't have that.... that magic Alec