SwinggCat's Natural Vibing Contest

I'd like the natural viding course because I feel a vibe within yet just now it simmers gently, I'd like to know how to turn up the volume in an easy and useable way. The mouse I am wishes to become a lion ...only I still want to like cheese and I don't want to be lazy and lie under trees all day long,...but ...ehm...I'm wandering off the point. At work, in clubs, at bus stops, where ever I am near available women, I know the vibe, I sense the vide, I feel the small tickle of the vibe, but it's caught inside like a trapped bird in a cage. This bird wants freedom, this bird wants to sing, this bird want to fly, choose where to land then enchant with it birdsong. You give me the vibe course and it lives up to it's promise and I'll give you a story like no other birdsong sang before! Thanks Jim

Hello Swinggcat let me tell you a story. Its a story about my one year journey to succeed with dating/women. A year ago i (Oliver at that time 33 years old) decided to improve my dating/Sexlife.At that point in my life i couldn´t even say hi to a woman.(I had negative thoughts (about my looks) about myself and was afraid to talk to women). So i started out very slowly just by saying hi to 3 women a day. After that i try different Pickup items (Cds dvds) Then i try a lot and failed a lot. But the more i tryed the less mistakes i made and after a while i was able to engage women in short small talk and i improved again. I got numbers and dates a lot of make outs and finally sex with women. But and this is why i need you Natural Vibing Course after all of my effort i don´t have success with women on a consant base.I´am not where i want to be and i want to improve much more. At the same time i want to learn from the best and you are one of the best. So now its up to you - Oliver

Dear Swinggcat, First, I want to say your Sexual Connections course has been so valuable, even more than the Foundations to Attraction course. ...I believe if your Natural Vibing course is what I think it is, the final evolution of your teachings that integrates everything for attracting woman to man's highest potential from all the years of your unique research and experience and painstaking rational thought, then I will become your next best student, because my best skill which I use professionally as a portrait artist, is to observe and analyze information from the truthful perceptions of life with the most ambitious commitment to improve my skill to a world level, to serve my passion of striving to produce significant value for the most deserving people, as you have been pioneering in your own way. I've had two futile long term relationships, but within a couple years I would like to find the smartest & most beautiful woman inside and and out to marry and build a lifelong spark-filled family & pass on what I learn to my best friends and sons. I've been working on for a few months, so that is another incentive for you. I will eagerly await your response. -Ben

i'm french, but vibing with people is a world wide seek. My whole life, i tried to vibe and connect with people, sometimes successfully, sometimes its fails. But i am closely, in my deep brain, sure that everybody his good in his heart, really. And bad reactions comes because people try to protect themselves, theirs physicals and emotionals states. But with good tools for understanding immediatly the mood of someone, i think a whole new life could be revealed lived at a maximum level. - A

My game has hit a wall, and climbing over it (better yet, breaking through it) will require some work. I'm convinced that vibing is the part of my game that'll prove to be my ultimate answer. I've been told on more than one occasion that I'm a natural charmer. If that means that I possess the magical ability to naturally charm every woman except the one who matters (although I do like all women, in general, in a universal sense), then yes, I'm guilty as charged. Otherwise, I'm just a guy who has what appears to be an above average level of emotional intelligence. That, sprinkled with some clever lines of improvised humor and unique facial expressions, is sufficient to make a "friend" out of any woman. Sadly, "friend" has been the title that I have consistently received as of late. It's time for a change. I can fearlessly approach them all--the ladies no one else dares to approach. The one you always see sitting there with the cold look about her face. Although I feel that bit of hesitation, too, my feet just move. I have fun conversations, and am able to color our dialogs with some fun kino. The bottom-line is that we are able to chat as two normal human beings should. I always add something to her day, for the better. What I sense so often though in those precious few seconds and minutes after opening is the energy waning. You know that feeling of almost having something within your grasp, and losing it? It's kind of like trying to hold water in the palms of your hands--after a second or two, all you have are a few drops left. Those are my conversations. Those precious, critical opportunities just go through the insinkerator, each and every time. I lose the vibe within a few minutes, and there I am--destined to be confined to the "friend zone" once again. It's so worse than Alcatraz--at least there, my new "friends" are not around to quietly remind me of the fact that my conversational skills stink when it comes to the pickup. Just the other day, I was reading at a cafe. A girl actually opened me. We chatted for about an hour, and I realized that I could've had an instant date right there--she practically suggested a venue change. I thought for a few moments about why that particular conversation worked so well. The answer? She obviously opened me, so she was committed to making it work. It was like "vibing insurance"--she bought into it, and I couldn't have failed if I tried. So, there you have it. I've been in the community for about a year. The biggest thing I've gained is a genuine appreciation for the ladies. When it comes down to it, that is what the community is about. It's not about being needy, but meeting the needs of the ladies' by being fun, real men. I just happened to come to the realization that "vibing" is a tool I definitely need at my disposal. James

Hello Swingcat,The reason that I would like the natural vibing course is because I've been divorced twice and now I have a closed head injury or traumatic brain injury. I was a victim of a hit and run auto accident.I need to use my social skills more than before to compensate for my disabling condition.I have a brilliant 14 year old son that I can help so he and I don't miss our"cues".Even though I'm a 51 year old man considered disabled I am so not done.I still like to have fun,and I "see" where this course could help me to do that.I've not had alot of success with women(two divorces and I take my share of responsibility for them) and I'd really like to improve on that. I care about mankind and I'm still here for some reason.With your course I'm hoping I could be a better father,boyfriend-husband-date,and (as jack Nicholson said in As good as it gets)a better man.Will you help me swingcat to be a better man? - g

Hi swingcat, I am from singapore and I am currently serving in the army. I have been reading newsletters from a couple of "gurus" for awhile now and have applied their ideas with limited success. I realized I was actually memorizing some of the interesting lines and like you described, couldn't sustain interest in the long run. However, I am probably not as successful as you with the lines. Sometimes when I use lines I have learnt elsewhere, they don't quite come out right. I either get the confused look or the patronizing giggle. I know I did it wrong but I just don't know how I can get it right. It almost seems as if I have alot of head knowledge on what are the right things to do and what not. I am however, having trouble applying them and using them in the right way at the right time. Many times I feel I am just not smooth enough and thus cause the moment to turn alittle awkard. I believe the vibing course is a critical part of the missing link that would surely improve my interactions with anybody, not just women. I'll also like to take this opportunity to thank you for your highly interesting and enlightening newsletters. God bless. =) Colin

This course is the greatest thing since sliced bread was invented. Up till now I might as well have been a monk (like dated about 4 ladies for a grand total of 6 dates over some 50 years)After seeing the woman of my dreams in Dec 06 I subscribed to your news from 01 Jan 07 (except for 1 week in Mar 08) continuously. Since (thankfully) resubscribing to grab your special reports it all suddenly makes sense especially your take on status/pecking order and "..hasn't figured out that women enjoy being charmed & seduced .."(09 Apr). Bad luck I didn't know about Attraction Science earlier in life but with course in hand I can at least get some practice and should there be an upswing in confidence, recommend your courses to acquaintances looking for coaching in this area of expertise. Thanks mate (buddy) keep up the good work. Andrew

i want the natural vibing so that i can vibe with women from other cultures which is which is what i find exciting because they are different from me very much and im aloyal subscriber to your newsletter for two years now and i have bought your attraction e book and audio course and until now i have also bought other gurus programs which are; rsd transformations ,all of david d materials',derek vitalio,and they are all awesome but your stuff incredible because its simple and yet deadly effective .so im looking forward to be the winner of this one because if its like the other of your stuff its going to enhance my already top game, even if i dont win ill buy it anyway because until now your stuff has been really helpful to me, but i hope that i will be the winner of this one. - n

Being a successful working professional in Los Angeles with above-average looks, most people figure that I'd score women with ease. However, that is not the case. Most of the time I pawn it off as woman being illogical creatures, but Swingcat's newsletter really helps me see the big picture. I've come to realize that it's not just hit or miss. There are solid techniques that help me hone my game, such as the push-pull dance. I figure that if I've picked up this much from Swingcat's newsletters and web site, that the Natural Vibing course would launch me into the stratosphere. Even the title alone, "Natural Vibing", shows how this course holds the key to taping into our built-in 'mojo'. I want the course so that I can go from a novice fan to swinggcat success story - Anonymous

Hi Swinggcat!! I'm 37 years old, from Spain.I'm ashamed but I never had a girlfriend, it's complitely true. I'm tired to try differents methods without results. In this moment I think "pick up" is failed for me. When I tried apply every techical advices it was bad for me. I felt unnatural like forced the situation. I'm very dissapointed, i think "pick up" works only for pick up artist because the real situations are complitely complicate, in club music is too noise, routines sounds out natural conversation and daygame people normally have hurry up. And important thing nobody talks it's about social life how to improve it for reaching goals. I'm lost in a wide sea and too confused about contradictory advises. I never could improve in this area of my life.I'm a good person, good student, a kind person ( sorry I don't proud it's about people tell me) so I feel I'm too old for beggining to dating young women,and resign to find a woman for wedding( I don't like this but...) All these things are because I need a authentical natural ( no more canned material!!) way. Thanks for all. (sorry for my Enghish) - Anonymous

ey Swinggcat it's Dimitar from Bulgaria! I will tell you the reasons why I want this course, but first i want to tell you my story. I was risen by my grandmother. She was a good woman, really. But she also gave me enough negative programming to become shy, introverted and not good with women... I remember one night when I was at a house party and everyone was having fun, without me. I was drunk and crying. Back then I was deluding myself it was from the alcohol. Alas, the real reason was my lack of success with the girls. I wouldn't even talk with the girls on the party. I was too scared... One night I found out about the community. I'd like to say that everything changed in that exact moment, but that would not be the truth. NOTHING CHANGED until I realized that my success is my responsability and that i have to do something about it and GO OUT! I feel happy now as i remember that today i tryed out my new openers on 4 girls on the street. Just yesterday i thought what would I be without the community- i guess i would have been much less cool and social. And the best part is that I'm just 18 now. I remember that I found about your materials from your article "A secret I learned from a frog" (which is one of the best articles out there). You made impression to me because your way of thinking seemed so similar to mine. Since then I read all your e-mails. Right now I go out, I try out new things and I'm having FUN. Recently I was out with a friend of mine, who you'd consider to be a "ladies man" (hehe, guess where i learned that one). It was strange, but as I listened to him, I thought he was talking bullshit and that he wouldn't succeed. Yet, he got the numbers of a few girls that night. I didn't understand how he did it. It was like he and the girl were in a different reality- it was like a play! It was when I read through your vibing article that i found out what he was doing- HE WAS VIBING WITH HER. And as I think about it, all of the guys I know that are good with women have a way of vibing with them. All of them. I believe that even the guys who become good with women by trial-and-error, are good not because of the words or just because of the body language. It's mostly because they learn how to vibe. I want your Natural Vibing course because I'm sure it will be right on the target- I want only the best and that's why I'm writing this. If I get the course I'm sure that I will try it, learn the skills and take my game to the next level because I know that even if it's the best course out there it's next to nothing if you don't go out there and try new things. And, damn it, I will! That's it, Swinggcat. Even if I don't win this thing, we will still be friends and you are welcomed in Bulgaria. We have some really nice chicks here. Come check it out! I hope you learned from this message at least 1/100 from what I've learned from you... Dolce -

Because I have an idea of my ideal self that I'm aspiring to become, and the person who I want to become will naturally connect and vibe with any one (female, male, attractive what ever) that he (future me) will come across. He (I) will also have the social skills necessary to sort out the positive fun quality people and make strong connections with them, and weed out the negative antisocial people from my life. I'm currently part way to this goal, I've been working on my inner self and building my prize-ability as a person, but I can see that my goal self will have an ability to converse and connect with people that I'm still developing. I hope that you're corse will help me on my quest. Thank you Trevor

I want your Natural Vibing course because I realize I need more skills to get the girl I deserve. My rival for a special lady is naturally cocky and funny, but it's still difficult for me to be that way alone with her. When he's there too, I can join in and she's laughing and having fun with me also. I can sometimes be that way for a while, but it's almost impossible to keep it going if it's just her and I . I know I need the extra help to feel comfortable and in control and feel more natural around her. My rival has free time and money so I need all the help I can get. Norm

I am 51, always the proverbial good hearted nice guy (mom, dad, two brothers, no sisters, no friends to talk to about life "stuff", no teachers of or about the opposite sex, etc--had to learn everything on my own and still learning) who would and still does help when and where I can and always got crapped on as some would say (not me bc I want to be nice, good and help, etc..wrong huh?)and never really had a girlfriend since I was 21 years young..only a few dates over all the years (I never knew to even call them back!!! DUH!..truth)and one long on/off "weirdship" I call it at 23-36, because I never thought of her as a GF because she was always lying and "cheating" on me but we just got along and I suppose loved one another in all the right ways except proper communication, etc(probably my fault to some degree--long story--short version is I never had a clue how what, why, etc, to be a BF or with a woman, etc)had and have no real true friends to talk with or hang out with, etc(God's honest truth; you can ask my 80 year old mom, we've discussed it and she doesn't really know why either?)and mostly have not a clue as to if a woman is attracted to me, unless she practically threw/throws herself at me and still I had/have no idea really what to do or say or any of the stuff you dating gurus talk about in your emails and courses. For some reason I just don't think like you guys do and it doesn't come naturally to me. This might all sound like hogwash, but if you met and talked with me you would quickly see that's it's all true. At this time I am seeing a 40 yr old woman I've known for 7 years and I'm trying my hardest to communicate and understand having a real GF after all these years..she is in the same boat as she has never had any real true friends or real honest to goodness BF's either till now, save her kids' dad --super abusive controlling child molesting lowlife. She's "broken" to some degree, but I understand her and we take it day to day..never really see each other that much because we both work different hours. that's the super extreme short version. thanks, Gary