SwinggCat's Natural Vibing Contest

Hey Swinggcat. I'll tell you why I want the Natural Vibing course. I've been divorced for a year and since then, I've been working on getting a handle on women and dating through various PUA/dating guru online programs, websites, and newsletters, including yours. I've had some success using approach techniques I've learned. But during a pick-up attempt, I always feel like I've got this checklist of "do's" and "dont's" running in the background of my mind, which distracts me and often leaves me with a "blank spot" in my mind, followed by an awkward void in my conversation. I hate feeling like I can't hold a conversation/a woman's attention. Maybe "Natural Vibing" could hold the solution for me. What do you think? Looking forward to your response, Shayne

When I look back at my days of frustration, all I remember is the "polite" smile and the rejection that follows. I was nice, I was submissive, I put others before me; I was everything I thought I needed to be. But the women? They remained nothing but a bed-time fantasy. For the past year, I have studied what I believed to be Pick-Up. I slept in the aura of seduction theories, and I woke to the ebooks of guru celebrities. Armed with killer lines and routines, I would roam the streets and the venues on them; looking for the next unfortunate victim to experiment. Slowly but steadily, I improved. I improved a lot. Sometimes, for nothing but the reason of pure luck, I would throw the right lines and introduce the right routines at the right time; leading to the glory of a kiss or a number. Luck remained the name of the game. I am now a self-declared social robot. I know theories, and I know their impact. I know words, and I know their reasoning. Heck, I even know basics of the female mind. But the reason behind the discourse still remains a mystery. Flirting, or 'Natural Vibing' for our matter, is what I have been ignoring, and, therefore, lacking in my 'Game'. There is a natural way to a conversation, a natural vibe to a pick up; an element that I want to understand. A course, perhaps, that will unlock the remaining. A necessity to conclude my studies. Thank You, Eitan

I am intrigued by the concept of vibing. The second-to-last email you sent about your friend who was good-looking and had occasional success, but attempted to bring dancing girls out of their vibe?... Well, that's me. My day game is spot on because (for the most part) all day game operates in the same vibe. I don't have to do any shifting. But at night? Holy crap... the vibe you need to synch with is going to change as you move from tapas bar to dance club to martini lounge. And, even worse, it changes WITHIN each of those venues depending on the group in which you find yourself. I suck at picking up these vibes. What that normally translates into is that I sit back trying to figure out what the vibe is. I end up violating the 3 second rule. If I don't violate the 3SR, I end up opening with something witty and then turn into the weirdo stalker as I silently try to figure out the vibe. On the macrocosmic level, I want the Natural Vibing course because I want to become a better social participant. Not just more attractive to women, but to become the kind of guy that I visualize but can't seem to be. - Anonymous

I'm excited for the course because i feel very strongly that persuasion relies on first gaining repoir with someone by meeting them at their vibe and then moving them into yours. Vibes are a hard thing to break down so if you've been able to do that, i think it could be a breakthrough in pick up. Routines can work but aren't always relevent and can often come off as disingeniuous or try hard. They can be easy to see through. If i could repeatably understand of the eb and flow of 'the vibe', i feel like i could be much more effective in gaining frame control where i'm free to lead the interaction through to seduction. - Anonymous

Swinggcat, Hi, currently I am a college student at a University where beautiful women are as plentiful as fat people at a Chinese buffet, seriously. It is my 2nd year and I feel like I am missing out on the best time of my life to consistently meet and attract women. I have been studying this stuff for a couple years now with descent results here and there. However I have never been able to consistently keep the results going. In the past I can remember talking on this level with girls, where I didn't quite know what was going on, but I knew that our communication was exactly where it needed to be. The reason I knew this is because all the sexual tension and status building stuff I would normally use, would work 10 fold in these situations. I remember thinking that if I really stuck with this stuff I could be absolutely amazing at it. Well somewhere in the last year or so I've gotten in a slump, and haven't been able to break out again. Weekend after weekend and night after night I barrel through this stuff, thinking the whole time that something is wrong, and that I haven't been making the right "impression" on these chics. Well when I read your special reports I realized that vibing was the missing piece to the puzzel for me, and that I had to learn it. This all probably sounds generic, but it is %100 true for me. Thanks for doing what your doing. Wes

I NEED IT!!! I'm one of those kind of guys that when I get in a conversation with a girl it goes ok for about the first 30 seconds then after that everything just dies. Every time it happens I think to myself "What the? What do I need to do different, where am I messing up!" What frustrates me even more is the fact that I always have girls that will let me know that they think I'm hot, then after talking for just a little bit they begin acting like they want me to get lost. Even when I happen to get a girls number it lasts about a couple of days then out of no where she wants to have nothing to do with me. Like I said, I'm an attractive guy (many girls tell me so), but I can't talk to girls and keep them attracted at all. I don't know how to vibe with them! What's even sadder is the fact that most of the girls that I talk to start conversations with me, not me with them. Then after a while they leave, never to be seen again. I just get so frustrated not knowing what I'm doing wrong or what I need to do to fix it. I'm lost when it comes to girls and don't have any idea what it takes to keep them attracted, for even about 10 minutes! So hopefully that lets you know that I DESPARATELY NEED THIS! - t

Well, I'm sure I could sit here and come up with a million lies, perhaps an old fling has come back into town, maybe I've never been good with ladies....but the truth is...I've always been good, better than most, at talking with women, and getting them to like me, but I don't know why. And of course, sometimes I fall back into some old ways, that always leave me doing the 5 finger shuffle. In my career, I do ALOT of traveling, and get to meet a lot of exciting, energetic, beautiful young women, who just happen to help my business affairs, some of which I have met on MySpace, which I just started a couple months ago. The road can be a long, lonely bastard. I feel that if I actually KNEW and UNDERSTOOD the things I've done right, and the things I've done wrong, not only would every long business trip be an exciting journey of passion and fun, it could help my small business as well. I know that deep down, all these beautiful women I have met in person, or on the computer, all want to be seduced and feel special, but I'm getting to that age, where I may not be the most popular, or cutest man in the room, but I'm still handsome, and have a lot that women like, I just need some education on how to make it work EVERY time, consciously. Thanks swinggcat, take care good buddy!! - mike

Dear friend, hi. I do like, and appreciate the utmost distinguished realization to what you have done in creating this precious Natural Vibing course that help most of men like me to discover something that we could not think to. I give you 99 percent for the good job that you have realized in benefit of us. One thing, remember that my english is very poor beacuse it seems to be like my fifth language, i am an afican man living in US Michigan and through this opportunity of relating my view' point; i end by congratulating you sirs for the nice affordable performance job that you have done in creating this precious course. Thanks and sincerely yours - oliver

Swingcat Over the past several months I have been reading your emails and picking up numerous pointers and tips. Everything you talk about really makes sense. I just really never thought about these things before. Some of the things you mention I have unknowingly applied in my past dealings with women and the results were just as you said. You are truly amazing when it comes to insight and understanding of women and how they think and react and feel. You have become truly wise in this area and you have my deepest respect. You are the Jedi master and I want to be your student. So why do I want the Natural Vibing course? I think the real question is – who wouldn’t want it? Only a self proclaimed know it all who feels he has nothing more to learn. Heck I’m always searching for knowledge and understanding of women because of my past failings. Obviously I was doing something terribly wrong to experience the painful heartbreaks I experienced due to my ignorance and pride. I am much more humble now and thirst for knowledge. Your course would without a doubt help me in my quest for the great wisdom that only my teacher possesses – and that is you Swingcat. Please teach me. Please provide me with the tools that you and I both know I need to become more successful. When the student is ready the teacher arrives. That time is now. Boy am I ready!!! I fully realize just how powerful and valuable anything you wish to share, is to a person like me. If I should be so fortunate as to receive your course my gratitude would be endless. If I miss out then I am happy for those who do receive this precious gem and hope they value it as much as I would. Thank you for taking the time to read my request. - Anonymous

Vibing has always been a subject that I've had some difficulty with. The whole concept is somewhat elusive to me, as it is a rather intangible and difficult to explain portion of the pickup. Ever since, however, an experience I had with a brazillian girl I met in a hotel lobby who spoke almost no english, I have understood (without fully grasping the concept itself) the importance of actually projecting a particular vibe and meshing it with that of the woman. I could hardly tell you anything about who this girl was as a person, and I'm sure she didn't understand more than 6 words (fuck being one she erupted in giggles over) I said to her, but that chemistry, that intangible VIBE between us was absolutely electric. Our touches, half words, proximity, eye contact, kisses, everything seemed to flow from and feed back into that vibe. I want the Natural Vibing Course because I want to have the ability to bring about and understand that kind of situation again and again. That experience had a profound impact on me, it genuinely felt like a fairy tale romance, and I want to be able to embody that experience in the interactions that I have with women. I believe that the Natural Vibing course will help me to achieve this objective on my path to self mastery. - David

Dear swingcat. i'm john "the lost soul." My father died when i was only 10 yrs old. I never got a chance to ask him about girls. At age 15 My mother became so possesive that she scared away my only girl friend! I meen she literally went to my friends house and caused a big scene!! chasing after the girl. then grabbing me by ear and throwing me into the car. In front of the girl, and for all my friends to see!!! I was grounded for a whole summer vaction. I went all through high school. and never got a girl! If i was attracted to a girl i never let it show. I felt It was wrong to express such things. Needless to say I'm glad the myth about hairy palms wasn't true. My mom got re-married and I had an abusive step father. i could never ask him about such things as girls, because no matter what i did it was never good enough for him. This put my self esteem in the toilet. My story gets worse! Did I fail to mention that i was born with a birth defect.? Yep... two crooked arms to be exact. Both of my elbows are fused at the joint this prevents me from facing my palms in an upright position. So for as long as i can remember every beautiful girl that has ever helped me at a cash register looks at me like i'm some kind of genetic freak! I have to twist my whole body just to grab some quarters. when I turned 21 I finally was able to move out and get away from step dad and mom. I still was very lonely and searching for a companion. Thats when I decided to get a Mail order bride from the phillipines. It was great at first. I thought wow is this what it feels like to be loved and happy? It lasted 7yrs just long enough for her to get her american citizenship. 33&divorced.help!! - John

Being a successful working professional in Los Angeles with above-average looks, most people figure that I'd score women with ease. However, that is not the case. Most of the time I pawn it off as woman being illogical creatures, but Swinggcat's newsletter really helps me see the big picture. I've come to realize that it's not just hit or miss. There are solid techniques that help me hone my game, such as push-pull. I figure that if I've picked up this much from Swingcat's newsletters and web site, that the Natural Vibing course would launch me into the stratosphere. Even the title alone, "Natural Vibing", shows how this course holds the key to taping into our built-in 'mojo'. I want the course so that I can go from a novice reader to a swinggcat success story. - dennis

It's taken me 10 years to overcome a debilitating illness and I now believe anything is possible. I got some DYD material, noticed the difference with women and realised the difference was me - how I am, what I do! I am ready to take the final steps to transform my life and the lives of women I meet. I have read many 'experts' and only your ideas (& DYDs) ring true. Reading your outline of natural vibing was like diving into an ocean of possibility - I believe it will enable me to swim deep and strong to new a world where I can tune in to and be in tune with the hidden vibrations that connect, releasing the music of life. - m

Well, the truth is im sure alot of other people could use it more than i could. But i doubt they had suffered countless heartbreaks and wussy expiriences, before they even turned 20. I never believed in theses things because ive never won anything from them. But here goes... recently i met a few girls online. Nice, attractive, smart, and easily fun people to be around. The problem is even though things seem like they are working for the better, ive been here and done this many times before only to end up in the friend zone. Id like the chance to learn how to vibe with these girls better after we meet so i can attract them easier... AND KEEP IT THAT WAY! plus who likes spending money anyway, its a freebie. everyone loves free things. =) thanks for everything.

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Well, the truth is im sure alot of other people could use it more than i could. But i doubt they had suffered countless heartbreaks and wussy expiriences, before they even turned 20. I never believed in theses things because ive never won anything from them. But here goes... recently i met a few girls online. Nice, attractive, smart, and easily fun people to be around. The problem is even though things seem like they are working for the better, ive been here and done this many times before only to end up in the friend zone. Id like the chance to learn how to vibe with these girls better after we meet so i can attract them easier... AND KEEP IT THAT WAY! plus who likes spending money anyway, its a freebie. everyone loves free things. =) - Anonymous