SwinggCat's Natural Vibing Contest

Since childhood, I have always kept away from socializing. My parentshomeschooled me so I wouldn't have to deal with the troubles (gangs, bullys, etc.) of going to real school. Its been a year now that I've been in college, but there are times when my confidence isn't where I want it to be with women. I don't have much experience with them, but I've been reading your newsletters and some other books to help me conquer this fear. Your Natural Vibing course would be a great help to get my socializing skills to where they should be. - Anonymous

Because I had been married for 20 years and have absolutely no game whatsoever,I need to learn how to approach women. I get the looks from women, sometimes the smile, sometimes even a double-take. But I freeze up and won't ever talk to them. In other words, I am a big pussy! Maybe your course can help me. I am decent looking, could stand to drop some lbs., fairly successful in my business, have the ability to make big dollars, but I just don't think I measure up to everyone else and always let opportunity with women pass me by. I need some damn help in this area. Everywhere else, I seem to be confident, strong and respected. But when it comes to women and meeting them, I suck at it! Help me out here, Swinggcat! - Damon

Hi Swinggcat - I've come a long way since first reading your great advice...I still need some help, though, I think. You've definitely helped me build up my confidence and Prizing of myself, and in that I found a great girl that I've been with for a while...but it's that subtle stuff, the vibing, that's been tripping me up. It seems like it's the step beyond having a strong intent - I respect this girl for having a strong intent all her own, but I feel I'm losing her, like I've lost the ability to vibe with her, something just beyond my perception. And hell, if it doesn't work out anyway, it would be great to be one step up on my game, when I get back into the game. Thanks for everything, man! - Anonymous

why do I want the natural vibing course? Obvious awnser I'd think, to pick up women. Through trying out some of your course through the newsletters I know full well that they work and an opertunity to discover the full potential of this previous untouched material would be quite an honer. Besides having just gone through a breakup well today, this is perfect timing really. Oh and one more reason if you need one is that my freind im on holiday with currently has a large thing for a certain lady. This way you help both of us. Even if i'm not chosen keep up the good work Swinggcat! - harry

swinggcat i really really need the program on vibing with woman. when its comes to vibing with woman, hell even getting woman i have not even the smallest amount of skill and on my luckest day i have no luck with them. i work at a gas station so i get plenty of chances to talk to woman and ive heard twice from friends that i girl was flirting or it look as if she was flirting with me and i was completely oblivios to it. i try and try day in and day out and only get worse. i know a few guys who are actually really good with woman and ask for help on hepling me become a player and we got no where. they actually told me that there was no hope for me out here. i started to beleave them untill i found your web sight. you sound vary knowledgeable on woman from how to approach, seduce, to vibing and getting laid you really sound as if you know what your talking about. ive tryed other places but i reap no results, so i coming to you as a last result and as my last hope to transform me into not only a player but one of the best because i belaeave you can do it and i can do it with your help so please swinggcat help me thank you i know youll choose whoever needs it the most. - D.

Where I've come from is a mindset that approaching Women was like everything else in life that you needed to jump into everyones frame and hope for approval. Needless to say that my whole life till now has been uneventful. What I've learned from your ebooks on the psychology of conversation, NLP, frame and Meta-frames, loops etc.... have opened a door that I never knew existed. I have studied other disciplines and found very little in the information that would answer my questions. What made the change is getting thrown around by the scruff of my neck one too many times by Women. I've had it with looking for answers through others who didn't even know themselves what a real relationship is about. They are the very same guys who marry practically the first pussy they are lucky enough to have. Excuse Me!! but I'm starting to gag. Your first book sets the frame for me to own up being a Man. Own it, Take charge! Vibing is about what I suspect in pushing me to get back into not only stifling a relationship with Women but Myself. A frame that places the power back to where it belongs. With Me! - Anonymous

I would like the course for many reasons. The main reason of course is to improve my interactions with women. Over the past year or so I have been getting reading into the pick up community from people like Style/Neil Strauss, Mystery, Juggler. They all have different specialties when it comes to picking up women. You have your own specialty also. I wish to learn that special trait you have and improve on my own skills with women. Also this may finally get me the chance to prove my friends that this pick up stuff is not bullshit. Perhaps this natural vibing course will change their mind. Overall though main reason is I want to improve. - C.

Hey Swinggcat! (: First i gotta tell you that i really love your newsletters! I'm signed on to soo many Pick-up-site's maillist, and I'm telling you... There is SUCH a big amount of crap in most of them :D anyways, i'm always looking forward to get yours. Now to the main point: Why would you give me the free vibing course? One simple reason: I NEEDY it. I didn't really realise this untill a coupple of days ago. A newsletter popped into my mailbox, flashing the title "Breaking down vibing". I always really thought that EVERYthing you do while meeting girls, was sort of vibing with them. I thought it was just a matter of doing w/e you we're doing in the RIGHT way but this mail told me otherwise. I now see that it doesn't matter if you use all the greatest pu techniques, if you're not vibing with the at all girl. The problem is.. I don't know how to!! argh! I've so often gotten this 'feeling of not vibing' when communicating with girls/women, even though i myself really couldn't find a direct answer to what went wrong in the conversation, neither could any PU articles/books explain my failure to me. Now i know where the answer lies, and i would so dig getting there! Thanks for reading (: Sincerely yours -Junker

fter reading your "Breaking Down Vibing", I was AMAZED. My jaw dropped repeatedly throughout the whole report..you were right..the way I communicate with everyone around me has changed forever, because I know how completely amazing it feels to vibe with a woman, and how vital it is.. But just as you have confessions on different e-mails, I have one. When you had mentioned that you had new breakthroughs awhile back..I was actually hoping that it WASN'T a course..but not for the reasons you'd guess. Right now, I am currently still paying on two of your courses (Meeting Women Online, and D.I.G), working part-time, trying to make ends meet, AND I have college coming up, so I can't have another monthly payment at this point. On the flip-side, though..I believe that this new material will more than likely be unbelievable, and will push me to the next level with da ladies..and I think we all long for that, right?! Shit, yeah. Regardless of what happens, look for an email of mine soon..and a personal HUGE "Thank you" for all you've done for my life, and everyone who's set aside their ways of thinking for a MUCH better way.. - B.

OK, I know that its not just a numbers game, that I don’t need to be friends first, and I’m not “in” just because I make her laugh and get her number. Problem is HOW to achieve attraction, how to get the prize, HOW the f**k to vibe with a chick when I’m rapidly approaching 50 and I want girls aged 25 to 40. Don’t get me wrong, when folk say what’s your problem with women your own age, I have no problem, I may even sometimes like them, I just don’t fancy them. Trouble is this often leaves me feeling I have nothing in common with the girls I approach. The more they want to talk popular culture, Britney etc the more I regress into acting like the over-educated geek I feel on these occasions. Can it really be true that vibing is more about form than content? Can structure work like magic? Can an older European student achieve the success you suggest? Send me a winning free copy and maybe I’ll let you know the results in due course…….. Tony

I just complete my 44th birthday and I'm still single, which I hear many single women 20-36 think never-married men over 40 have leprasy or something... Anyway, I also have serious approach anxiety, along with being a little chubby, and that doesn't help either, so I need a boost, something that can help me get over this impasse and turn my life around. I've read your stuff and I'm a believer! walt

I'm very interested in your Natural Vibing course because I know self confidence is the key to getting most things in life, including women. While everyone has good, no outstanding qualities, it's the ability to reflect them appropriately to other at the right time. Being able to accurately summarize a situation quickly and responding correctly is just not a natural trait. I believe your course will provide the tools and knowledge to allow me to do just that. Your course will provide more than just the ability to attract women, it will cross over into all aspects of life; job, family, friends as well as making me the prize women are seeking. I have seen men who were clueless, and the end result. At the same time, I have seen very successful men and wondered what made them special, other than just dumb luck. Your course suggest it's we all have the capability to succeed, if we just learned key attributes and applied them. I look forward to learning and using these tools in my adventures. - Bob

Hi Swinggcat It would be real cool to receive that Natural Vibing course of yours. Its seems like one of the most important things to do right around women. Or people generally. And I think that's the next step i have to cover on my way. Like your newsletter btw, and take care Kasper

I'm 65 years old and just getting back into the dating scene. At my age, I can quickly tell when I meet sommeone I want to connect with, and I don't want to waste a lot of time with old fashioned dating techniques. For example, I just met a beautiful lady, ten years younger than me, and I know that I want to have a long term relationship with her, but I don't want to spend a long time getting there. She says I'm her first serious date since her separation two years ago, and she wants to take things slow (sounds like the kiss of death to me). She even used the phrase "let's be friends first" and really get to know each other. I want to have sex first, and really get to know her better after that. It sounds like your Vibing Techniques will help me tap into her limbic system so we will both get what we want in the least amount of time. I don't want to move too fast and turn her off, but I certainly don't want to drag this out longer than necessary. I'm a doctor, and I know the power of subliminal emotions triggering the limbic system, but what I don't know are the secrets for tapping into that power. I'm hoping your course will unlock those secrets for me... Thanks, Arthur

My success with women was beyond awful 2 years ago before my university years. I did not interact with a woman at all during that period and thus, had no experience whatsoever. What I'm about to tell you is not a story to make you feel sympathy for me, its just my own personal belief. When I was around 3 or 4 years old, my father passed away. I did not have the pleasure of being raised by a powerful male figure in my early years and therefore, I feel that sense of weakness in myself. My belief is that if my father raised me, my life today would be completely different. I believe that I would be more powerful, have a strong frame, high self-esteem, and be much more successful with women. I know that it is not a positive belief to have but this is what I truly believe. As a result, I've had to learn everything myself as I grew older. I've read tons of books, listens to many audio CDs, and invested a lot of time on improving myself. In the past 2 years of my university life, I can gladly confirm that I've interacted with many women (but not enough) and I've become a much more confident and social person. Yes I did kiss women, yes I did get phone numbers, and thats about it! I've never had a girlfriend either. Therefore, I believe that if I do receive the Natural Vibing course, I am confident that it will assist me in my journey to be successful with women. I've read tons of material and all of them have helped me become a more confident person today. However, I am still far from achieving my personal goals, and I am certain that your course will get me one step closer. Thanks for all your help Swingcatt. - J.