SwinggCat's Natural Vibing Contest

Believe it or not Swingcatt, I've never actually had a girlfriend, its not that I'm fat or very ugly though thats what my friends call me, but its mainly that I lack confidence in myself & I straight away think this girl I want will never want to go out with me, I never hardly talk to girls because I'm too scared because I dont know what to say, & when I do talk to a girl we'll just stand there & I'll be dead silent because I dont know what to say & when I do think of something to say 2 minutes would have passed & my question will sound very stupid; but I could have had other girlfriends but I just dont like them, my friends tell me beggars cant be choosers meaning I'm the beggar whose begging for a girlfriend & whats there is what I should choose. But with this natural vibing couse I feel that I would be able to start intresting conversations with the girl that I like & she wont have to wait for a minute or two to hear the next question I'm to ask, because the two things I lack with girls is keeping them intrested to talk to me & starting up a intresting convosations. please swingcatt me loosing my virginity to the girl I want to loose it to depends on YOU! p.s - You're free tips have helped me too build up my confidence. THANK YOU swingcatt. p.s.s Matthew

As corny as this may sound. I am looking for real love and of course an attractive woman. I will not settle for any homely or unattractive woman. I want a woman with a good personal disposition. I will do what it takes to find what I want in a woman. I am not going to settle for second best. I want the best and I know I am going to get it. Myron

I have been having problems hooking babes but now ever since you started sending sample techniques to my email adress I have started seeing the world differently and now you are the only teacher I can trust. I don't want to hurt any lady but I want to get a woman to love and cherish and even get married.Since i have already learnt something from your simple material i believe there is even better skill and techniques in The Natural Vibing Course that will help me get a lady for a wife.- mark

Well, to be really honest ...i was really sceptical and cynical about the whole thing at first and felt it was TOTALLY impossible to get a girl into bed if i did'nt possess the "conventional" attractive qualities such as good looks, money, fast car etc. i really felt the stuff you gave out was just a pile of no-good B.S. till i started reading the teasers i got in my mail, the stuff you said openly challenged the accepted mindset and quite frankly....blew it away!!!! i t made no difference if i didnt score in the looks or money department but charming my way into a woman's heart was actually working with your technique...though i've been more successful with women now then i ever was, am still in the ametuarish stage i feel and there is a LOT of scopr of improvement which i think can only be complete with your amazing guidance!!! i feel i desire this book because your adivce haas like, given me a new lease of life and now i can actually not be girl-shy any longer...whether i get the copy or not, all i wanna say is that ur doin A GREAT job and keep it up!!! thanks a million brother, all the best, God bless Yours faithfully, Khayaal

Hi Swinggcat, I recently ready your Foundations for Generating Attraction, and I found that this is the only type of material of its sort in the seduction and pick up arena, that which talks about vibing. I did a workshop with some guys in Australia and they use a similar philosphy to your vibing with women. In field I practiced my skills on vibing (from your course) and found it to be very effective. I like your style, and that of Jugglers for seduction. In fact I'm no longer looking at other material by pua's. I want the Natural Vibing course because I want greater satisfaction and achievment with my interactions with women. I know your course can deliver this for me.Cheers, Zac

Swinggcat M'Man, send me that free-bee. I'm intrigued by your concept of vibing. I'm recently divorced (3yrs now) and back into the 'dating scene'. I never in my wildest dreams thought that meeting women would be so hard. Women are so damn fickle! I need a tune-up, an edge, a jump start to get my game back.! What i need is your excellent advice. Your friend, Frankster

In 6th grade I bought a book, if you could call it that, out of an ad in a skateboarding magazine called “How to Get Girls.” I was desperate. I had asked every hot girl to be my girlfriend within the first month or so of school. They all said no. I went to school dances pumped that finally, I would lose my fear to make the approach and dance with the hottest girl there. Every night, I went home depressed. A pattern that would reemerge when I began going to clubs when college started. None of the girls in my class wanted to be my girlfriend. They thought I was a loser. Therefore, I thought I was a loser. All I wanted was a popular girl to prove to me that I wasn’t loser by becoming my girlfriend. It happened a couple times throughout middle school, giving me a solid boost of self-esteem, but it never lasted. By the time high school rolled around, I was a full-blown validation junkie to the point that I would date an unattractive girl for a bit, not think much of the validation that I was getting, but when she broke up with me, I’d mourn her for a year or two. Same thing, for the most part in college. I’ve had above average success with women despite my shortcomings, even getting busted in Dubai for making out with a girl on the beach during Ramadan, but events like these are few and far between. I need a paradigm shift. My hope is that Natural Vibing will help me further reduce my limiting beliefs (ie: “She is a sorority girl and I am a straight-A student. We aren’t going to have anything to talk about.”) I tend to feel like it is difficult for me to connect with most women because my interests center on international politics, quantum physics, and philosophy of mind. They say that as long as you talk about what you have passion for, you will be solid. I have found, however, that this doesn’t work for me. Consequently, I feel confined to talk about “how shitfaced I got the other night” or “Kelly’s new boob job.” To say that least, my interactions have been less than fun for me. Ironically, however, my most satisfying relationship was with a girl who was 100% my opposite. I am all about school and my career. She was an NYC hipster. Try as I may, however, I’ve never been able to experience that awesome clash of lifestyles again. In the back of my mind, I have a strong feeling I am going about the whole vibing thing in the wrong manner. I am too focused on content when there is probably something more subtle yet obvious that I am overlooking. I can’t exactly put my finger on it, but I expect Natural Vibing to open my eyes. I refuse to believe that I “just have to wait until law school to find girls who are more my type.” Sure, I want to date intelligent and successful women, but that really forecloses a sizable portion of beautiful women out there. I feel like if I had some sort of roadmap that outlines how to connect with a person, regardless of periphery differences, then I will be well on my way to success. I want to see the big picture like I am starting to see with Swinggcat’s analysis on frames and metaframes in his e-book. With hard work on my part, Natural Vibing will allow me to take my game to another, more satisfying, level. - Matt

All my life ive always wanted to able to connect with any girl i would meet, not just those who were about similar to me. I would be attracted to women of all ages, from all walks of life, yet always I would think, I’d have no chance with them. They just have different interests, different styles. Simply put, i would think they were from different worlds. So, even though i was inexplicably attracted to them, i found myself eventually giving up. It got to the point where I just excused myself, saying, "we're too different". But after reading your articles, i was overjoyed to realize someone actually can help me. I was, and still am, determined to change myself, especially in this. I hope the course can help me, so maybe one day, by being able to connect with more women, I would be able to find the girl of my dreams. - Anonymous

Swingcat, The only real reason to want own for yourself a copy of your NEW NATURAL VIBING course, is too add a hole new and improved set of tools to that empty drawer in our tool chest. How can any man be complete with out a good set of tools. From what I have read, this might be the LATEST AND GREATEST TOOLS to own. Without tools, how can you TUNE UP your game and your love life. Without VIBING a pickline line is just that. A line. We need this NOW, make us all a NATURAL! Jeff

Because, Swingcat, im sick to death of being that sterile bit of incosequential pathetic form that is evidently male (though i often doubt it!) stood with my back to the bar watching all my friends vibing with chicks, having some drunken space cadet of a guy/girl chew my ear off unintelligibly before making an early exit home, head down, chin scraping the ground and finishing the night feeling sorry for myself listening to Morrissey and numbing myself with some strong cheap spirit...Christ, this has got to change bro! -Christopher