Here Are Two Of The Winners From Swinggcat’s Natural Vibing Contest & 300 Other Worthy Responses

“I am a 67 yr old recently divorced male, and have used information gleaned from your E book and dating tips with surprising success. Yes, your methods are affective on older females. The psychology seems to be universal. However one aspect of a relationship puzzles me. It seems that prizing and tension loops works well in the beginning of a relationship but as time goes by females develop a need for exercising their care-taker instincts and relish some vulnerability-the opposite of prizability. The side of women that needs to feel special, receive true compliments, and other special treatment is real and needs to be tended to without relinquishing prizability. I think that if I knew better how to vibe with women it would be easier to strike that mysterious balance of behavior that would, longer term, keep the fires of romance burning. Women send out signals[vibes]and are very disappointed if their mate doesn't pick up on these and anticipate her needs. Sadly, since these vibes can be very subtle, I for one have had too many of them go sailing right over my head. I am sure being able to vibe is critical to achieving successful entry into the female comfort zone that you speak of in your book. Like the female labido, the need for submission, equality, and dominance differs in degree from female to female. My guess is being able to vibe with a woman will make finding that balance easier. I believe women call this vibability "connecting" and I will bet it is the single most common trait found in the true "Ladies Man". Besides, being able to vibe with a partner makes all aspects of a relationship more meaningful and more fun. Well Swing Cat, those are my reasons for wanting to achieve greater insight into the female psyche through vibing. I wish I had access to your material years ago as you have explained behavior I have puzzled over for years. I am testament to the fact that you can teach an old dog new tricks, my success with women has improved dramatically since studying your material. Keep Smiling Michael”

There’s a legion of reasons why I like your response.

One, some guys fall into the misconception that my techniques only work for a specific demographic of men trying to date a certain pool of women.

Simply not true. The psychology I teach universally applies to all women. Because I date a wide spectrum of women, I keep reaffirming this truth again and again.

Two is that you give us all hope, man. Most 67 year olds have kinda given up on trying to be a ladies man (Heck, I know guys in their 30s who think they’re too old to become a stud.)

I think we all wanna be you when we’re 67. Keep up the good work.

And I’ll keep a close eye on you to see what kinda adventures you get into using the techniques from Natural Vibing.

The third thing I like about your response is that you use the word Vibability. Damn it. I wish I thought of that first. I’m stealing it from you.

Winner # 2

“After being moved from school to school in my very early years. I started a very bad drinking habit when I was 15. I was drinking constantly, before and after school, all day every day. I'm 27 now and virtually all of my adolescent to adult social skills were developed with the influence of major alcohol consumption. I've been sober for about 3 years. Now that I don't have alcohol, I also don't have any of those social tools I developed while drinking, I feel like my social level is that of a 15 year old. One of the hardest things for me to do is to be social and feel comfortable without alcohol, in a social setting. My fiancée of 6 years just recently left me, (about 6 months ago), she was my dream girl. I was so set in my mind that we were going to be together forever, knowing that gave me a little confidence, "at least I wont have to go out there and try to meet women without booze" I would say to myself. Well, now I have to get back out there and I'm really lacking in the area of social vibing. thanks Swinggcat, not only for the opportunity to get this material, but also for investing the time and energy to help out the men and women in the world. sincerely Aaron”

I really feel for you, man. I think a lot us can relate to where you’re coming from.

It’s not that most guys are raging alcoholics. It’s just that many of us think we need a little liquid courage before vibing with and attracting women.

Quick story…

When I was in high school I went to a party and got loaded. I was the life of the party, vibing with girls left and right. I felt like my personality had been let free. I told a buddy of mine, “Wow, man. I found my miracle drug.”

He responded with, “I’m impressed. But I dare you to go to a party sober and act the same way. I bet you can’t.”

It took me years to get to that point. But once I became skilled at vibing, I no longer needed to have a couple of drinks before socializing with women.

Don’t get me wrong. I drink. I’m just not dependent on it.

Most guys drink to lower inhibitions. But inside Natural Vibing you'll discover a way to switch those inhibitions off without having to resort to alcohol.