SwinggCat's Natural Vibing Contest

Dear swingcat, all my life, I have never been that type of guy who could sweep a girl off her feet with my looks and charm. I have read about various methods and tips from different PUA, such as yourself, and I seem to do ok with it. However, I lack an essential part of my game. I never knew what that could be, but I did know that without it, my game would suffer. I feel that if I won a copy of natural vibing, I could finally have the right broom to sweep the women off their feet. They're might be other guys out their who deserve the copy more than I, but I definitely feel like no one has had as much of a struggle and fight as I have. I hope that I get chosen to win the free copy of natural vibing, but either way I will continue to try and sculpt my game as best as I can. Thank you, John

I have noticed when I go out with my best friend from childhood that we always seem to get the attention of women around us with little or no effort. However, when approaching alone, I often times struggle to keep conversation going, so woman's reaction to the silence determines what happens next - and some fill it and some walk off, and exclude me from their conversations, so I do not get a chance to recall things from your "Sexual Connections" course to use in conversation. In fact, my vibe when talking to people on my own causes a "state break" like reaction in many strangers. And my best friend has struggled to attract back his ex, the mother of his two year old daughter, who he wishes to marry, but who forced him to go to court to even get a reasonable schedule to visit his daughter. I realized after reading your Breaking Down Vibing report that the reason we do better when together is that we have an instant natural vibe with each other that we project into the room and others feel - it sucks others into our reality. Now if only we could consciously, systematically create that vibe when not in each other's presence, especially if I am out on my own, and John is meeting with his ex to pick up his daughter, which is the only chance that he gets to even talk to his ex -- that is why I deserve a free copy of Natural Vibing. - Stephen

Last saturday i went downtown with a friend, we saw two girls standing by the beach. We went to talk to them. My friend started talking and the girl was receptive and enjoying him instantly. When i tried to fit in, the girls wouldn't even hear what i'm saying. I went to seat beside the other girl. She was listening music so i asked her to let me hear some of it. I told her it stink and ask if she had hip hop. Then i tried to make conversation with her, though i have some threads, i felt like she was feeling a weird ambiance. I had this round on my forehead that was cold and felt like i'm some kind of weirdos that can't make women feel comfortable and happy. I blew up the ambiance. We went to a bar. In front of the bar there was girls, my friend started throwing a line and they were enchanted. Again when i tried to give my 2 cents the girls were ignoring me, like i'm not there. Again i had that cold circle on my forehead and my throat was tight and i felt my body creeping. I tried to have some courage and started talking and talking, but words would mingle in my mouth and they were staring at me talking like a triso. When i saw the first girl i tried to talk to in the evening the next day, i wanted to be social and drop a hello and she stared at me with a kind of arrogant confident sufficient face, like she's cooler than me. I was just the little dog saying hello to her. I still have a cold circle that build in my forehead, my words mingle in my mouth and when i speak, first girls try not to pay attention to me then they listen because i'm kinda forcing but they have an expression of "oh my god what is that". When i talk to them, it always turn me being a mismatcher, criticizing and killing the ambiance. I don't understand how my friend get attention, and get girls to be enchanted when he first starts speaking. I tried to model him, observed him, tried to notice patterns, asked him questions. But i can't get to do it. I don't understand what's going on. It always turns out the girl being arrogant and cooler than me and even if she recognizes me in the street she always give the impression greeting one of her dog. This is devastating to me. Is there is really a solution to my problem ? I mean i'm 30, never had a girlfriend (do the math), and no matter what i try, there's always that circle in my forehead that's building and then the ambiance is killed and the girls are looking at me like i'm weird. I also have a problem with words, i'm too sensitive to words. How do you guys do for not caring about what people say to you ? I hope this course contain the remedy to my desperation. I would be so happy to walk to a girl and make her feel good. Like she's enjoying my company. Because i'm sure that i can bring a lot of fun and cool to someone else's life. I just can't get rid of that cold, weird, like a rotten energy that comes from my brain and draw a circle in my forehead. I want to be happy making someone enjoy being with me. I want to feel that connection where you can speak to a girl of whatever you want and feel the excitment of the exchange. I want to bring a light of happiness and pleasure to their lives. I want to feel connected. I want to be the guy that drop in and make the group feel lucky. Right now, i'm the guy who's hanging out with a cool guy but can't seem to get a hold on his magic vibe. I want that vibe, the shinning in the eyes that says everything's gonna be cool, you're about to top cloud 9 with me and feel life is cool. I so so much want to be that kind of guy.- k

Well, I`m from the USA but now live in Switzerland, and for the life of me, i cannot get on with these women.. They`ve goota be some of the most difficult women to get to open up on the planet!!!!HELP me, pleeeease? JW

I would have to say that I've so sucked at my relationships with women. I've been the type that all I've ever known is to try and be nice to them and be their best friend. I need help to break free from this cycle. I'm 41 and need all the help I can get. Thanks, Thad

I have had problems with dating and attracting girls all my adult life. About 2 years ago after another failure I decided there must be some information to help guys like me. After searching the internet and reading up on nearly every dating forum and newslatter available I finally thought I had the problem licked and had met "the one" by being confident and showing my prizability. After a promising start things got worse and she ended up dating some other guy on and off for over a year. I finally thought things were coming together just before Christmas when she told me that I was her soulmate and she loved me. However 10 days later after me telling her it was time she committed to being with me full time, she dropped the bombshell that she was marrying her supposed "friend" that she had dated for over a year. I have finally come to the decision that I need this area of my life sorted and this program sounds like the perfect opportunity. Trust me Swinggcat I wish you lived in the UK, I would pay you to be my wingman to help mefigure out what I am doing wrong! - Stephen

im a 25 yeard old Mairne who hasen't been with a woman in over 2 years. My contact with a female has been very limited in the past three years due to operational commitements. so i need Natural Vibing to help me feel comfortable as well as confident when talking to woman. So please choose me for the winner. - Shaun