SwinggCat's Natural Vibing Contest

To me, really communicating with a female is one of the most rewarding experiences possible. Of course this communication can take many forms (*wink wink*), but I believe you learn just as much about yourself as you do the other person when you can really communicate. This type of communication has only been possible in the last year or so by reading material such as "Natural Vibing." Life is so much more interesting by sharing it with a beautiful woman. - H.

Because when it´s good I can promote it for you in Germany :-) And because I like the idea of the limbic brain to be implemented in Dating Strategies. Best ragards, Frank

I am on the verge of something really big here. I am starting to see impovements throughout my game and I am becoming a much better person because of it. It think that the natural vibing course is the last peice of the puzzle that I need. I truely beleive that this course will skyrocket me to advance techniques. Terrell

Hi Swingcat, thanks a lot for your newsletters. I still aint figured exactly what i owe you in return. I love them.. oh and women to .. ofcourse! I got this big problem. I got all the looks, style, good language skills, status and all i need to reach out to ladies i want. i do reach out yes but their confidence in me changes soon afterwards. i guess this is because i aint capable of fast connections... i mean close sensitive dialogue with people i chics i just met. Some think i snob them, others think i have a cold heart towards them while others think i'm too withdrawn but i know i'm not all that. Problem is that i dont let them get close. Now you know why i need the vibing course. I got a hell load of potential to utilize your piece of work.... Please here me Swingcat. Regards, Michael

Dear Swinggcat, this is me sincerely asking you to give me a chance to become something more than just the loser I am! I've never been good with women, I freeze up as soon as it's my turn to keep the conversation going IF I'm lucky enough to BE approached first... This feeling of mine, lack of control over my own life, it's fucking terrible... And I know that you can help me, i've read your newsletters for quite some time now. You really seem to have it all figured out... Now I know you're thinking "why should i give this AFC my sweet and precious course package". Well, I'm just that desperate! I've seriously put effort on this thing but i haven't been able to up my game with just losing weight or getting a tan and learning how to speak more loud... I'm still very shy but thank god I'm not obese anymore (some women actually dare to look me in the eyes nowadays). And the worst thing (also the reason why i haven't purchased any of your stuff) is that I'm a minor and I live in Finland. Since I don't have a bank account or anything (and I'd rather eat shit and die than tell my parents that I have a problem like this) this is probably my only chance to make a final, definite change in my life. I wanna enjoy my life, not 'survive'. Plus, I'd love to see how your material works in a social community like ours (I live in a small town called Tampere). Hope to here from you soon, - XT

I don't want the Natural Vibing Course, I NEED the Natural Vibing Course. Hi, I'm Blake. I'm recently divorced, no kids, just turned 30, and I'm a disaster with women. Now, one might say, "He got married, he can't be that much of a disaster..." The situation of my marriage is a little odd. I got married to my best friend out of high school/college, and then we realized that we were just that...friends. No romantic feelings for one another long term. So all through high school and college, when I should have been working on my interactions with women, I wasn't. Why should I, I had a perfectly wonderful one of my very own, or so I thought. So now I'm WAY behind the 8-ball. I essentially have the game of an 7th grader, and I'm not getting any better at it. I talk myself out of approaching women because "she probably has a boyfriend," "she doesn't want to be asked out at the gym," "I'll just make an idiot out of myself if she says no," or countless other excuses. I was hoping that maybe my friends would be able to introduce me to some wonderful single friends they might have, but apparently my friends know NO single people. How this can possibly be, I have no idea, but I'm through with waiting on them to come through with someone for me. I tend to put women up on a pedestal, instead of realizing that they're just people, just like us males. I'm working on that, but could definitely use a little more guidance. So, bottom line - I need to get my confidence up so that I can approach more women. I think this course would be integral in helping me to do that. I would love to learn the theories and practice of "Natural Vibing." To learn to talk to women in a natural way, in a way that compels them to want to be with you, to crave your companionship. So, I guess if you see me as a worthy cause, help a brother out and let me be an insider on the Natural Vibing course to success. Either way, thanks for your great emails and advice. Have a great week! Blake

’m not going to waste time planning this out so I’m going to write this as it comes to me. The way I see it if I win that’s amazing and if I don’t I haven’t lost anything. Being initially more of a natural I don’t know if you could relate to this but here it is. Basically, as a child I was scared, abused, antisocial and sheltered. I wasn’t taught by anyone what I needed to know and needless to say where my home life didn’t kick my ass, society did with very little redeeming qualities to my life. From childhood until recently before I learned attraction, my life has been mediocre to bad and in many ways still is. I’ve grown up with very few talents. Virtually every skill, every crevice of my appearance, and every aspect of my life I have had to bust my ass to create. And I struggled at most of them more than most people. All I got growing up was basically every guy and girl making fun of me. I grew up in a middle class family. Always had food and necessities but nothing special. As a baby I suffered neurological damage and wound up with motor skill issues. I wound up not being able to tie my shoes until 3rd grade. And then I took up drumming which right through high school I was mediocre at. And to make matters worse I spent most of my younger years at least 35 pounds overweight and all the exercise in the world didn’t change my weight. I later found out that was a thyroid issue. I didn’t get kissed until I was 18 and I didn’t get a kiss I legitimately wanted until 19, I was a chronic masturbator until the age of 18 because I was too afraid to talk to girls because every time I did I would fail because I didn’t understand or know how attraction works. My social life wasn’t much better. I was a way below average frustrate chump (primarily because that’s what society raised me to be). Basically my all this shit has driven me to become the best at whatever I do in life which is why I won’t use things like the Mystery Method or Speed Seduction. I will not accept that a natural can do it without the materials but I can’t. - C.

Hey Swinggcat, I don't have any rags to riches or sob story to tell you. I'm a 17 year old virgin with not really too many complaints about it. But I am interested in women, and very interested in learning. "Knowledge is power" sounds cliche, but only because it's bone chillingly true. I want to be able to attract the girls I really fall for, which so far I haven't been successful at. I figure a girlfriend will really make me happier, so I'm taking the most practical way to getting one I know how. I've read a lot of your stuff and it seems true, especially since I've put some of it into action with results. I.e. framing, push-pull, and making myself the Prize. I know you're a salesman, so you'll pick the winning answers that will sell well. And perhaps my age already disqualifies me from the contest. But either way, thank you for what you're doing. I want to be happier and make other people happier, through love or sex or whatever, and you've definitely helped me out with that. So that's why I want to learn about Natural Vibing. Seems like there just isn't anything else like it out there. P.S. I hope you go with people who have nobler reasons for wanting to learn than just boning everything in sight. Don't go with the ones who are just kissing ass either for free education either. Have fun. Peace. From Rya

Hey Swinggcat, For one thing I know is that I can be the guy who is out there living life. I have a commitment I made when I was 19: To get to the point where Im fantastic with women, to give women the pleasure that they deserve, and to learn from as many naturals or gurus. Whatever it takes, I am willing enough to do. And I have been at it since then. I am 25 now... but still need to tweak the game, vibing up a notch. A lot of times it still ends with friendship more than anything else. I want to learn! Take my skills to a new level! I dont care about WHAT I have to do to advance... all I want is to get good and I am willing to do everything it takes. So assist me on this one! Kash,

Hi Swinggcat, you ask me why I should be eligible for your Natural Vibing course. First, like probably most of the guys here, I am pretty much unsuccessful with women in general. It is like running against a wall when communicating with them. I always feel like being a beggar and them being the price. This happened to me for the last 37 years. Has there been a bigger loser than me? Probably not. I tried out some of the products of other PUA. But it always was like wearing a jacket that was not mine. These stereotype pick-up lines and these artificial behaviours, they feel so unnatural that I quickly gave up because it will not lead to a long-term success: after a short period of time most of the PUA broke up with their girl friends because their behaviour might not be so authentic as they originally played it. Have a great week Alexander