SwinggCat's Natural Vibing Contest

I am from Windhoek, Namibia (Southern Afrika). I am a fan of yours and had devoured all yo newsletters. With the little that i have learned there i had improved ma (my) sexlife, relationships and even got attention from a couple of ma ex-galfriends. I have applied what i have learned in yo letters not only to ma lovelife but also to ma social life. Ma interaction with colleagues, family and lecturers have improve tremendously. Unfortunately due to variation in currencies and the kinda money that i make now i have been unable to save enough money to invest in your work (which by the way not only add value to the lifes of guys like me but also the gals that i come across who do not seem to get enuff of ME). When it comes to vibing i am doing ok with everyone from toddlers to toothless aging grannies...but when it comes to gals i ...i need structure to pull it off everytime. Currently i am relying on trial and error and brevity to go out there and improve on what i did the last time. Armed with Natural Vibing i can only promise you one thing....to flood yo inbox with one success story after the other. Ouye Namibia PS:i have some dog-eared PDF printouts from you that i had read to bits and Natural Vibing is the natural step from where i am

Why I want the Natural vibing course, I want to be one of the three deaf frogs that can climb to the top of the ladder, I want to be a winner with women and not a loser, I want to control them and they not to control me 24/7. I want use the attraction and vibing secrets that you have created to achieve and experience the pleasures that you have already experienced and therefore no - one better than to learn from Swinggcat (the dame killer) himself !! Many thanks Steve

My reason for needing the Natural Vibing course is an incredible, yet frustrating 22 year old woman with whom my concern is precisely the vibing aspect. I’m a 22 year old Oxford graduate who founded and runs a large national student organisation in the UK. I’ve been writing to a fascinating woman from South Africa for 5 years, and as it transpired that she was due to come to the UK, a relationship began to develop. I’m white, she’s Zulu royalty. I met her in person for the first time after she came to the UK last month, and I’ve seen her twice since. This could be the start of the most incredible relationship of my life, and it’s certainly more interesting than the average boy meets girl story. However, I’m concerned that although we vibed exceptionally in writing and sometimes on the phone, after we met that initial special feeling is wearing off and fast. She doesn’t seem to have the spark – or perhaps I don’t inspire it in her any more. I don’t have her in the palm of my hand, she doesn’t spring energy off every word I say. She is a strong-willed, yet quite a low-energy person and therefore it is all the more important that I’m able to get the vibing right with her. I saw her last Monday as it was her birthday the previous day; but that day it all went wrong. She talked and talked and I listened; and after she mentioned that she’d done all the talking and I jokingly accused her of selfishness she turned round and asked me the question “OK, what is the most interesting thing about yourself?” Coming from Zulu royalty whose grandparents had been involved in the struggle with Nelson Mandela, addressed to a white middle class Oxford-educated guy, that is a highly intimidating question! Her tone was also somewhat accusing. As if she resented me for something. I played the high-achiever, going somewhere card, but she said that was b*llocks and that the most interesting thing about me is my battle with religion. Here’s another thing: She is semi-religious, I’m not. She said she had an ‘epiphany’ on Sunday at her aunt’s church and may want a guy who is ‘in Christ’ which I’m not, although I was brought up religious and I understand it to an extent. Given that she slept with a guy on a whim a couple of months ago and isn’t exactly purer than pure, (we’re both sexually pretty innocent), that she can flip to saying this tells me that she is morally and mentally a little more pliable than her comments suggest. I think it depends on her circumstances and what suits her at the time. So you start to get the picture – there’s the general attraction side and the religion side, and I think with good vibing and good communication, I can surmount my frustrations with her. On Sunday there is an enormous event in London involving thousands of people and tens of organisations, in which I have a fairly key role. I will know many people there; yet she will be there but will know nobody except me as she has just moved to the UK. This will put me in a position of power. It will set the frame that I’m prizable. But I need more than this. I believe my relationship can be saved if I can get the vibing right. This is the first reason why you should give me this course for free. The second reason is that my organisation is a charity and therefore I am permanently strapped for cash! I look forward to your response and I hope you realise the potential your course could have in my life. - Jonathan

Because i lost my girlfriend a while ago because i cheated on her. She doesn't want to se me anymore. The few times that i had the opportunity to catch up with her, i just did the wrongs things that has upset her. Last month we went out for dinner, and after that we went for a few drinks and after those few drinks i started asking out again and she got all upset because we were suppposed to go out on that night as friends. Now she doesn't answer my calls or msgs and don't know what to do anymore..I don't really have problem with approaching girls..i'm pretty good at it but recently - Anonymous

I really believe you Swinggcat are one of the true pioneers in the PUA field.I have read many of your letters and it is obvious that you have done loads of research in areas like psychology, nlp and of course seduction. I would like the Natural Vibing Course because I know coming from you, it will be very practical, and very innovative with years of your research going into it. I want to improve my success rate with women and your new course will certainly help me on that path. Regards Amigo. - Lin

Swingcat, I feel that I really need the NVC because I've never really learned how to vibe before, and I really think it's the one thing that holds back all my progress, not only with women, but people in general. I can start a conversation, memorize lines and stories, and have great body language, but somewhere in there, something is missing. I believe that something is the ability to vibe with others. Without that, all conversations have an uncomfortable feel about them... or an air of creepiness, or phoney-ness. I truly feel that your course could be the solution I've been looking for! Thanks for the opportunity! Mark

Hey Swinggcat, I want the Natural Vibing course because I no longer wish to hang out with the mangy hags with the stretched boobies. And that's basically what I've been getting. I'm a forty-four year old who thinks young and looks young. Lately, I've had to go to Speed Dating events because I haven't been too successful with women elsewhere. The problem is that these functions are based around your age. So I end up talking to forty and fifty year olds. The worst part is the ones who choose me are the fifty year olds. Hey, I love all women, but I'd prefer to be out with 20, 30 or even cute 40 year olds. Swinggcat, guru of all gurus, (hey, it doesn't hurt to grovel),I know your course would help me get my act together and score a touchdown at clubs, on the street, and at the deli. So please help this vibing-challenged individual and save him from a life full of stretched boobies. - Al

for all the girls who missed out. for so many years, I was frustrated. I could not connect with girls except as a friend. I had a lot of personality and stories and great insights about life and songs to sing, etc. and girls would tell me what a wonderful guy I was, but that's about as far as it went, most of the time. And so, one fine day, I learned about push pull...not moving only Forward...getting them to lean in and chase...and then suddenly my stories and wit and charm were not just making chicks like me as a friend...suddenly they were achieving another purpose. And so, I'm grateful for what I now have...including a girlfriend who is very happy to share me with others and who is so "in the canoe" with me because of these skills I've learned from Swinggcat. Still I feel bad for so many girls who could have benefited if only I had the chops for all those years when I was not connecting. And even today, I have so much to give, and so little time. Being able to create a vibe with any woman would, among other things, give me and my girlfriend more cute girls to play with. And it would allow me to celebrate life in so many more ways because each woman is a world unto herself....at least the good ones are. This would allow me to honour that gift in depth every day. I know it says in the bible that "more will be added" to those who live in the light of abundance. I realize that many guys are living in the desert sexually, and I am not. But still, I feel that I deserve the prize because I know just how much I can do with it. By the way, I'm a bald overweight 48 year old man, so I ain't makin' it on my looks. - B.

Swinggcat, allow me to elaborate: I believe that fate wants me to procreate with a mate (or eight). In fact I think it'd be great, if your course could end my wait. I'm already starting late. Can you change my state? Many thanks mate. ian

I've been thinking about this question the last days myself. What is the reason I want to have this DVD-serie. Finally, out of the blue I knew it. Yes, I've read your book and I did really help me. It allowed me to create attraction with girls I didn't know. I helped me to control frames and to do some push-pulling, but the problem is that after the first meeting it stops. I can create attraction, but I'm yet unable to keep the attraction, it's like a one time thing. If I can read your course, I'm pretty sure I can connect with girls on a deeper level and create more lasting attraction that way. Your course would help me from being a "one night stand hunter" to a full casanova. Best regards! jordy