SwinggCat's Sexual Connections Contest

I'd like to get a copy of the audio course so that I don't end up as one of your inspirations for another course...

Dear Swingcat, All my life I have been someone with the sesire to be the best person I could be. I found success in academics and in sports that I desired. However, when it came to social interactions I just felt like I was always on the outside looking in. I have always had a great wit and sense of humor and I love to use that ability to make people happy. Women would laugh and enjoy being around me however, when the laughter ended I was left behind and it seemed that I was missing something essential to being able to really connect with women and people in general. all I want was to be a popular guy who can connect with people. To be a leader, someone who can be in a circle of people, I felt something inside of me that knew I had more potential and just had to find the way to bring it out. In high school I met two guys who are naturals. Women flocked to them and couldnt get enough. These guys are my best friends to this day and I never had that kind of success. women would laugh around me and then go sleep with them! I just wanted to be as successful as they were. However, they were and naturals they really couldnt explain why they were so good. I just chalked it up to the fact I am a bigger guy and they were skinny. I went to every high school prom stag and had no date through out. I went to college frustrated and almost accepting that women in my life wasn't a reality. I met a girl who was shy and acually had a sickness at that time. We dated for nine months during which I helped her and her family through her sickness which was a rare form of eplispy(forgive the spelling). SHe was devistated by this illness and I tried to be her strenght and a rock for her. I thought it could't be any better even though we had not had sex deciding to keep it until marriage and we planned to marry soon. Shortly after the Mayo clinic gave her treatment her parentswho were so possesive of her that after our first major fight, they cut her off from me, her mom told me over the phonethat it was over and the girl later broke up with me with a e card. This crushed me and any confidence I had. I went into isolation for years avoiding interaction fearing such pain again. Still a virgin at 25, and just accepting I wouldnt be happy I found a book that sparked hope. The Game by Neil Strauss. It spoke of a world where men could learn how to gain social skills and not only connect but attract women at will. That it had nothing to do with looks but social ability and confidence. I wanted nothing more than to achieve that, to beable to approach and attract a dream woman and finally grasp that social acceptance that had eluded me my whole life. In those methods I found every one talking about "push pull" tension by pushing a woman away then bringing her back. That brought me to your foundations of attreaction. and I have tried to incorprate push pull in my interactions but something is still missing in me. I still fear that rejection so much that I get to a certain point and freeze up. I want to be able to be the social person and leader I know I can be. I want to be that good friend and provider with a magnitism that can draw people to them. I feel as though I am running my head against a wall. I keep tring and going out and meeting women and interacting but I need something to get me past my stumbling block. That is why I want your course, to be the man I know I can be friend , lover, leader. I havent had a date since my break up 4 years ago, and the more I try the more I get shot down. I know I can achieve great things and what is possible, but my confidence is a problem I cant solve. I have tried all kinds of inner game things but that fear keep returning. I ask your help Swingcat to help me find my inner coquette and begin the road from gimp to pimp. Sincerly, Brandon

OK, so it will be a real gift if you give the course to me free of charge. I'll most likely get it anyway. I have a gift for seeing truth and your material always strikes me as quite insightful and simply makes sense. I'm really not out to pick up women, I've inadvertantly done that for my whole life (or was I picked up?). It's when I find a woman who really fills my expectations of what I want that I've had difficulty keeping. Since I started delving into this whole study, I've been able to thrive in relationships. Your material was the most straight forward and some of the most profound in waking me up to the reality that lies around me. Thank you Neo...

In highschool I was brutally teased about my big nose which shattered my confidence. I had few friends, while most just hung around me to tell me there newest most witty big nose jokes. I got into a couple of fights over this, but when everyone is laughing at you, how do you ignore this reality? Despite this, girls would still attempt to flirt with me. One girl who sat behind me used to always play footsies with me to get me to turn around and talk to her. But my confidence was so low I always ignored her, even if she kicked my feet really hard! My dad was awesome too, he used to beat my mom up over the dumbest things like a spilt drink. I don't want to even get into that. BASICALLY I AM A PRODUCT OF MY ENVIRONMENT. THIS IS HOW I WAS RAISED - THIS IS HOW I AM. Years have passed, the teasing has stopped but the scars have not healed fully. Ya I get lucky once in a while but I start acting all weird around girls I am attracted to, while I can be so relaxed, funny and confident around my fat hair stylist. Why do I want your program? I want to see if it's better than your competition, which I spent a small fortune on. His stuff is good but theres not enough "do this, say that" in it, which I need cuz i just don't know how to act.

I reside in the Philippines and wondered if there is science behind attraction between two people or maybe some people are just meant to be w/each other and that's it. I found out that there is a whole lot of things going on in it. So I'm just really thankful for the infos I've learned so far even if I don't receive or win this stuff I know I have come that far with women. Lastly, I don't know if you have people/customers who are in the Philippines and tried out your stuff... all I know is we have different cultures and somehow we must customize these knowledge presented to bring out its full efficiency. Thank you and more power!

Drive, desire, challenge, courage… What are they? They are words that have become trite when describing personal aspirations. Right? Maybe? While I could use these words to describe what once was, I won’t waste your time. I will use them to describe what I am and what will be. I am the type of person who looks at life’s challenges as an opportunity to adapt. I won’t waste my time thinking about what I can put down on here to make myself look needy or desperate by spending countless hours trying to figure out how to make you feel bad for me. I will spare you the anguish of reading a reiteration of thousands of men who have a negative view on life. Instead, I will save myself some time, pour myself a cup of coffee, and tell you a little bit about me. So… who am I and what the heck do I want? All my life I have been unsuccessful with women. It is time for a change. What I need is a new perspective. I have spent countless hours studying pickup material with limited success in the field. Deep in my mind I know I can do it. I just need to know how. Despite my limited success I am happy to be learning the new material and I take every experience as a learning experience. I have developed the capability to come home alone at night and break down the meaning of my interactions without getting upset so that I can adapt for the next time. I do this with a smile on my face knowing that I can see that glistening light in the distance. I am not a failure because I didn't get what I wanted right away I am a success because I tried. There is so much material out there and differing perspectives that Its hard to take in all at once. But, I try to take in the different perspectives and I try to make it work for me, my personality. I try to be congruent and so things that best fit my style. One day I am hoping that I try will become I am. All of this material is powerful stuff. Through my learning its very easy to be malicious with some of the techniques. But, I am not. On the contrary I have found by learning about seduction it has made me a better person. I have found that by being a better person learning seduction has become easier. I find myself NOT blaming the world for my troubles anymore or sitting in the corner wasting my energy sulking. I have learned to take everything as a life lesson. By doing this I have met a lot of cool people and have done more interesting things in the past 6 months that I have done all my life. In the words of the Dalai Lama "Happiness is not something ready made, it comes from your own actions" It is a very powerful frame to put myself in. I realize that I am in control of my own fate and that I do not inherently exist but I have control over the outcome of my future through the interactions with my environment. I refuse to be a passenger in my own life when I can be the driver. So why do I want this course? It is my aspiration to expose myself new perspectives that will boost my experience and knowledge level. I believe that this course is one of the many opportunities to expand my skills in a field that is constantly evolving. It will allow me to apply my basic skill set to many different situations. A new perspective will challenge me. If everything went the way we wanted all the time it would be convenient, but it would also be boring and unrealistic. The reality is that not everything goes the way we want it to go all the time, no matter how carefully things are planned. My limited experience in the field has exposed me to situations that are different than what is expected. I am looking forward to the opportunity to use my brain and my basic skills to develop innovative solutions for difficult situations. These critical thinking skills are what separate the average frustrated chump from a great PUA. It is my goal to be a great PUA. I am ready and willing to accept this new responsibility for the greater benefit of the community and all the frustrated men in the world. New skills will give me an opportunity to enjoy and develop the personal aspect of the community. I have always found it interesting to meet new people and explore their attitudes and perspectives. I also believe developing interpersonal skills is critical for all aspects of life. This is an invaluable experience as it will help me better relate to all people and communicate effectively. I approach the opportunity of becoming involved in this program with great enthusiasm. I hope that my attitudes concerning my desire to pursue this course fits what you are looking for. Thanks for your time, Robert

I have received and read all your newsletters for more than a year. I also have both the audio and the video copies another seduction guru. Your advice has been right on spot so far. I have an astounding sucess rate at getting numbers, sparking interest, getting ladies to come after me and even ask me if i would like to have sex with them all while knowing i was seeing other ladies. The only problem so far is when we are actually in bed. I want to be so good that they will come back for more. My social life is perfect thanks to you and i'd love to take my sexual ability to a higher level.

I really *WANT* this course because it will assist in helping me in my goal towards becoming a self-actualized man who can consistently attract women with new technology that is designed to stimulate every part of a woman's brain. I have listened to and completed all of the exercises in Swinggcat's audio course and I *KNOW* that it can trump Mystery Method, David Deangelo, Ross Jeffries because it has gotten me RESULTS where others haven't. I especially love the part on adopting the 10 beliefs as well as the attraction coups. (GOLD!) Well, you can imagine how excited I am about this course containing newer technology that is purported to be STRONGER than the existing audio course. THIS MEANS 5 TIMES the FUN, EXCITEMENT, and JOY in meeting and attracting women! THE BEST THING about this course is that gaining even STRONGER SKILLS with women will spill over to my work, social relations, hobbies, and ENHANCE my ENTIRE LIFE so that I may LIVE it in FULL and enjoy it to the MAX.

i NEED the sexual connections audio course because i am so damn tired of not knowing what was the next thing to do after seeing a girl i like on the street. It haunts me to know that, there is this girl that i like and i cant even think of a way to approach er and get her interested to talking to me. I am very shy, i find it really hard to look at a stranger and look them in the eye and simply, smile. i need this course becuz i have been reading it over the past months and i cant even afford to buy it so i try to get any little information that i can get from the emails that u send but i jus cant seem to have enough confidence to use them

To know what is it about your new course that is different from the rest of the programs your student went through (including other dating coaches' material/workshops and perhaps your 'Foundations for Generating Attraction') which made him make out with 3 girls in one night.

That would be wonderfull to have this audio course email - x_man1

I want the Sexual Connects audio course...simply because I am a chump with women...I am 29 and I never even kissed a women...I am 5"2" 130lbs every time I meet a female my nuts shrivel up...I spend countless hours over the internet watching Swedish porn...and wishing & dying for a woman to straddling up beside me...I don't want to live like this for the rest of my best years...I want to stop feeling helpless...I want to stop like it's impossible...and women are such a mystery...I need help...I believe that your program...make a dramatic change in my life...All those girls that I couldn't have been screwing...I'll now have a fighting chance... Hear my cry...I'm feel like a castrated chump... taa24

Recently divorced. My dating and intereaction skills with women have become a little rusty after years of marriage.

My entire adult life I have had trouble connecting with women. I never quite know how to intepret their actions, and as a consequence, I have spent the majority of my life alone. I wasn't always this way though. When I was a very young boy, I was very outgoing and happy, and chased girls all over the place, but there was one little girl that in particular that I was crazy about. Amanda. I was always trying to hug and kiss on her, but unfortunately, she didn't want anything to do with , me and she would always push me away. I think that this put the idea in my head that I was ugly and wasn't supposed to talk to girls at all, and set me on a path of misunderstanding and awkwardness regarding girls. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but even I am flirted with from time to time, and when I am, I never quite know how to deal with it, and usually nothing ever comes of it. I've only ever had one girlfriend my whole life, and while I don't wish to improve my skills with women(and people in general) simple to sleep with as many as I can, I would like to just be able to function as a normal person. Women usually think of me as "that wierd quite guy", but I would like to change that. I'm a pretty good guy, and even quite funny, when I'm comfortable, and I'd just like to be able to draw on that without losing my nerve. This, along with the fact that I'm also currently in college (again, after a 5 year hiatus, long story), and money is tight, are the reasons why I hope that you will consider offering me the course for free. Whatever your decision, thank you for the free newsletters and advice therein, they help a lost soul like me feel like there is hope! Sincerely, Josh Marion

Hi Swinggcat! I'm gonna be honest with you, I really suck with girls. I've tried every possible way to attract them but didn't get any results. That's why if I could have some kind of tool like your awesome course in order to have a real chance of getting myself a girlfriend, that would be extradinary ;) So, if you think I'm worth it well, let me know k Thanks!