SwinggCat's Sexual Connections Contest

I want this course becuause I'm just now entering my sexual prime... Using the things taught in your first course brought me many many succeses. I slept with three different girls in the last week alone. Sexual frames have become the next natural step for me already and seriously want your help in furthering my ability. I read your theory about the three mind things in a girls head: the prizability, the comfort, and arousal; and yeah that shit is true all the girls I just got with had all of these open. I've studied other guys but only your teachings have really clicked thus far.

Greetings Swinggcat, My name is John and I just graduated from college a few months ago. I had never heard of the community until after I graduated, when a couple friends introduced me to Style's "The Game". Of course, I was like most guys, lost virginity in college and had a few experiences, but missed out on the "24/7 orgy" many people consider college to be. Over the past year, I have been undergoing a personal transformation. In college, I had gained weight as many lazy students tend to do. A lack of self-esteem was always a problem for me and I was constantly seeking validation from others. School was also taking a toll on me; pursuing an engineering degree while also participating in a plethora of extracurricular activities was overwhelming. I was depressed for a good year and a half and had nothing to blame except my lazy nature. I came home at the start of last summer overweight and depressed starting an internship in town. This is where my transformation began. It first started with my appearance; I worked hard to get my body back into shape (I was an athlete in high school and am now back in good shape... a HB at a bar this past weekend asked me if I was an athlete ;)). Obviously, looking good helped with my depression. I also had more energy and was living with a greater passion for life. And these changes did help some with the ladies... but only some. Since I've been introduced to the community, I have had moderate success without buying any of the help books (I don't count "The Game" as a help book, more of a documentary), relying on newsletters and the online databases. My proudest moment would be getting a *close while stranded alone in another city, where I knew no one, because my flight got canceled. With some formal training, my untapped potential to become a PUA would be released. I already have very little approach anxiety, but I need the full experience of formal training to transform me into a PUA. I strongly believe your Sexual Connections audio course would be a massive step in my transformation. Swinggcat, I am ready, are you? John

Dear Swinggcat, I'm going to speak from the heart here. I have gone on many courses, just like your student and I've come accoss the same problems of being told "Learn by failure" and "Be confident" Recently, I got your first Special Report about Beliefs, and that was fantastic, and then I got your second one about Attraction and realised you have an understanding of women on a far deeper level than the other gurus out there. I want your audio course because you provide a 'deep level' knowlege knowlege about women that has been seasoned over many years that would help me tremendously in attracting women which I have been struggling with for years. I can see that by understanding from your experience I WILL become very successful with women and I'm going to hone it to a fine art and post a really solid review. Also, your way of teaching is very different to anyone else out there because you teach people HOW to study your course rather than throw in tons of information and overwhelm them. For example, you suggest that we spend a few days to absorb the material. You develop the student into a well balanced PUA which is so important, especially for me. You develop them internally through beliefs and frames and externally through giving them the dialog to attract women. The above pointers are EXACTLY what I'm looking for in a teacher and that is why I want your course. I thank you for consideration. Sincerely, Mark.

The reason I want this audio course for the most part to attract women. I seriously want to know what it feels like to be wanted by hordes of women. To begin with I'm not a wuss. I don't get all nervous or twitchy if a girl talkes to me or like that. I think it's mainly that I don't talk to girls all the time. So if i don't talk to girls all the time then I don't get the feel for having a conversation with a girl i guees. Yea I know a lot of the guys out there just want to get good because of the sex and stuff. But if it was just because of the sex then that's why prostitutes are there for. So by being good with women, you have fun and they have fun. it's just a win win situation for both. You can have fun with a girl and she'll have fun because you're not like the other 100 wusses out there.

I'd love you to send me a copy of your audio course because I'm one of your younger followers and have my whole life in front of me, so would be able to harness the skills you teach live a life time of extravegence with it that most guys may only begin to stumble across when they're begining to pass their sell-by date! I'm sure most guys are telling you to pick them just because they have no idea what they're doing when it comes to women and attraction, what I want you to realise is that I WILL benefit far more as I can get so much more out of it than they could, due to my youth. You are always mentioning that you know how it felt to wish you could just go up and effectively approach the hottest girls back in college. I'm in that position right now!, I need you to help me be the person that all the girls are attracted to, I hate the idea of looking back when i'm old, sat in my rocking chair, looking at my smelly, crippled old wife and thinking "I could have done so much better...". That's why I deserve this course. That's why you should post that little bad boy to me! :D Thanks for giving me the opportunity to be part of something life changing, Yours Truly

i really really REALLY want this course for some very deep reasons... i have had varied success with women, my success with women depends on my mind state of the time, which is rubbish, because i can't control my mind state all that well, i can attact very nice girls, have relationships, i've had about 10 girls in the last few months, but for some reason i can't get any girl i actually want, i can't get the girls who were like the girls who used to break my heart, i can't get the girls i really want, or are really attraced to, because i'm maybe not myself, maybe i blow it, but i think a big part of it is that i don't kno what to do, it's demoralising and heart breaking, when u are doing everything right, well u think u are, doing the same things and same sense of humor and positivness you've had with other girls which worked, only to be shot down, given the cold shoulder, ignored, over looked like your invisible. the mere thought of the new course, a new frame, a way for me to finally exert some control over my attraction level to women is immensely exciting, i at the moment have a very positive out look on life compared to what i used to have. my life used to be a complete mess, yet i've sorted it to great success. i'm finally on the right track, and looking forward to the future, looking forward to everyday of doing things i think are cool, dressing how i think is cool, not what society says, thinking what i want to think, not what right winged old fashioned idiots think, and i feel like i'm making great progess in every field of my life, except women. i still cannot get the women i truly desire, and i'm not talking about gettin super models here. i feel it's the only aspect of my life that is depressing me, or holding me back at the moment, i think your book sounds like it uses very real factual psychology, not some rehashed keyboard jockey coaches out there that just sell hype.. real stuff, that really works, not just fake external game stuff, real inner game stuff, which is clearly better for your over all mental health and well being, then constantly going out and tryin all these fake techniques with women. in short this aspect of my life is the only part bringing me negativity at the moment, help me destroy any left negativity in my life so i can be the wholly positive person i want to be and truly am! Thanks for listening,

I'd like to see if this is better then other materials (which are helping me a lot, although they require quite some commitment) Jan j

Dear swinggcat, It has been too long since i had someone say where attraction comes from, and let it open my eyes to all sorts of possibilites and realise, that the world is a different place when you got a different perspective. For me now, my life has been highly busy, trying to achieve my life goals (which don't really involve as much women as you'd think!), this has lead to me, having to neglect a part of my self which i consider i am accidently killing. I have realised this and in doing so, i have realised how much rust has got into my system and how bad it feels that this part of my life feels as if it is not sorted anymore. This can't be good for me as i am young and in order to help as many people as i can (which is what plan on doing) i need to make sure i have myself sorted. In order to change things you must be able to hold your own so you can concentrate on others. I would greatlty appreciate if you had any help to offer, i currently appreciate the emails i get from you as they always have some form of useful insight which makes me slap my hand against my forehead and go "ahhhh, why didn't i see that before!?". There are some ties i think i could do without and i think your course is one of the ways i could deal with this and get my life back on the right track. Although, if there is some other guy out there who you think needs this more than i do, i say he probably deserves it more. without a doubt i would love to get the course in any way possible. Thanks Shiran

the reason because i havent had sex for nearly 4 years and now is my big chance coming saturday!! i first got talking to her online dating and met up with her for the first time last sunday!! we got on like a house on fire!! ok im wwbAFC to the core but its only a matter of time before my whole outlook will change!! just hoping when i get this programme after trying it she will want me more??

because I am a cheap SOB that likes to listen to audiobooks while driving back and forth to work -n8

Because I want to win back the love of my life. With her on my mind all other girls mean next to nothing. Maybe you think this is not enough of a reason. Then please bear in mind that I try to get her for more than three (3) decades. Charles

i have been single for 14 years even though i meet a lot of beautiful women through my job. i would love the sexual connections audio course because; all the women want my fat balding brother and i don't know why.

Why should I want it? I believe in wonder, but I think they are a quite rare gift. The marketing aspect aside, do you really think that would skyrocket my game? I find myself at a stage where I compared, analyzed and processed a lot of theoretical knowledge existing out there. That being said, I incline to believe that, at this level, only practice and work would lead to a consistent improvement of my abilities. Unless you discovered the nuclear energy in the field of seduction… which of course I’d like to make use of.

Hello, I would like to get and try out the course, because I've tried so much of other programs, but they haven't give me the foundation as to I can't get it right, because something is missing. I know that I would need more confidence with women, the last week I've rewieved your materials. I must say, you seem to bee the real thing, and I've tried out some of your stuff and it's more of my style I think. I've blew away at least 3000$ at stuff that don't work, and I kind of see your program to be the last one I try, because as same as the guy you wrote about in your mail, I really can relate to him. I need something to that work, because I'm stuck. Another reason I so badly need your program is because I meet this girl from Israel, and I fell in love with here as no other girl I've met. It would make me the happiest man on earth, to learn to make a connection such as she feel the same way about me. And we could get to gether. She told me that we connected well, but not that way... and I know that I can make her like me at another level, I just need some help doing it, and I feel that the reciept for succeding is this program. I've allready ordered your prewious audiocourse. Sorry to bother you about this, I am so excited to getting started on your e-book, but the link you sent me is not functioning. Can you send it, please?

In my younger days, I had no trouble at all attracting women. In college, I had a little game I played -- I'd go to a party, scope out the girls in the room and say to my friends "I'm gonna make it with that one, that one, that one and that one before the week is out." And I would get it on with those particular girls within a week's time -- almost without fail. I was totally confident, due to the fact that I'd always been told I was nice looking, had a good personality, etc. I had no real seduction "technique" at all. Yet I was a "chick magnet" and enjoyed great success with women. I guess you could say I was just "cock-sure" of myself, and that almost always did the trick. When I didn't score, I'd just shrug it off and say "Boy, did that chick ever miss out ... NEXT!" I remained a bachelor for almost two decades after college. Most of the first decade was more of the same as far as my success with women was concerned. As the years passed, though, I started putting on weight and I became rather introverted, grumpy and uncommunicative. My "scoring" rate with women started to suffer as a result of these changes, as you can imagine. I had very little of the old confidence left. I had a couple of relatively long-term relationship during those years, both of which were generally unsatisfying and ended badly. In 1990 I got married to a beautiful flight attendant, after a whirlwind courtship. Within a year we has a daughter, my first and only child. It turned out that my wife and I were totally compatable sexually, but absolutely un-compatable in almost every other way. Our sex life started to become all but non-existant. Still, I wanted very much to stay married, and I didn't want to cheat on her. I started to put on even more weight, probably because I subconsciously wanted to make myself unattractive to women. It worked all to well -- whatever attraction my wife felt for me went completely out the window. We were divorced after seven years of marriage. I weighted 330 pounds at the time! For five years, the only sex I had was a one-night hook-up with an old girlfriend from twenties. It didn't go well, and both of us were disappointed. Other than that one unfortunate episode, I had a five-year dry spell. Then I met a really hot, beautiful young woman via a non-sex, non-dating site Internet forum -- who just happened to be 23 years old. We fell madly in love almost instantly, had incredible sex within 20 minutes of the first time we got together in person (she hadn't been with anyone in 3 years herself), and had a very intense five-year relationship. She didn't care that I was grossly overweight, and as a consequence our sex life was so fantastic that it contributed (along with exercise and diet) to my losing 75 pounds, and getting more fit than I'd been in 20 years. But last summer, due to the fact that various circumstances would not permit us to live in the same state, and she needed more of a constant companion than I was able to be, she broke up with me. I was heartbroken. It's taken me a long time to get over her and see that the breakup was all for the best. I came to realize that when she's my age, I'll be 90 freakin' years old -- and that wouldn't be good. But the problem is that the great sex we had -- not to mention just how damned HOT she is -- seemed to spoil me. It's not that I lack any confidence at all with women now, because that relationship gave me a lot of my old confidence back and I'm definitely not the grumpy, depressed introvert that I was before I met my ex-wife. But ... I haven't been with a woman now in over eight months. I get a lot of phone numbers, promises that we'll do lunch or have coffee, etc. -- but nothing ever comes of it. This is getting to be a real problem for me. I have the most intense natural sex drive of any guy I know of my age (60), never have anything even resembling ED ... and I don't want to have to get into another relationship in order to have regular sex. To be honest, I just want to ber able to get laid on a regular basis, and I want to be at choice in the matter -- rather than to have it depend on the whims of the women (mostly 35-50 now) that I find attractive. In other words, though I'm a bit overweight and a lot older, I'd love to be able to have the kind of success with women now that I had back in my younger days. I don't think I truly apprecated it back then, because I took it so much for granted. It would be much different now -- I would savor every experience, and I know the women I'd sleep with would do the same. I have a hunch that one thing I will learn from your Sexual Connections audio course is that I really DID have a "technique" back in the day -- but it was a totally unconscious one. And in getting my groove back where women are concerned, I feel that I will connect again with my true self -- and therefore be more creative and self-realized than I've been since those days. - Boz