SwinggCat's Sexual Connections Contest

Dude, I am 28 year old virgin in India. We have no help by way of in field training or hanging out with masters of the game. This is further complicated by the fact that I feel attraction only for quality women, not necessarily the hottest women. While I do get them attracted, the result is that they just completely become passive, waiting for me to just pull some magic and sweeep them off their feet. What I sense even in the best of them is that they get unsure of their sexuality around me. They still like my company and always respond to my lead, but what I desire is that they SAVOUR the arousal and excite me further to get physical with them, because after it is all over, I do not want any feeling of resentment either from them or me. It is why I have not even kissed a girl. Regards, Anonymous

After my divorce, and subsequent breakup with my live in girlfriend of five years, I pressed the rewind button on my life. I looked back and realized with shocking disdain, that all the women I had been with, had "chosen" me. I realized that I was never in control. The had all the cards, I was but a spectator! I want choice! I deserve choice! I hate not being the chooser, and more importantly, I hate not being able to pick the woman I want.... NOT be glad for the one that chose me. Swingcat, can I get a break? Can you show me? JP

I want the Sexual Connections audio course so I can improve my life. I have nothing going for me. I am 24 and consider myself ok looking but my confidence is zilch and girls scare me. I am dedicated to improve this aspect of my life and I spend atleast 3 to 4 nights out per week by myself trying to meet a nice girl. I just don't seem to get it with all the material floating around me, all it does is flood my brain and is confusing. I have tried many different ways but if this is the one manual I only need then I want it so baddly. I have Zero luck with women. I even repell animals when I go to the zoo. I have never been laid. I want to look at myself in a new way but can't seem to get my head around things. I think I am doing the right things but still don't get it. I approach lots of girls in lots of places but fail. I even fail when I go out with my wing "girl" friends. Something is wrong! Help is what I need and I believe you when you say the sexconaudio can help me. Cheers Byron ps - Did i mention I'm blind so I can't read material so I need audio? haha jk :)

I'm 22. I used to be real confident when I was younger and I loved life. I always took it for granted that my life would always be as fun and fulfilling as that. But some events happened to me a few years ago that just turned all that upside down. They all came at once and the after effects just shattered my confidence to smithereens. I started suffering from depression, obsessive compulsive disorder and social anxiety disorder. Just one of these on their own was crippling. I had no social life whatsoever all this time. I struggled to claw my way up time and time again, and there were small victories. I almost recovered once but I was on too high a dose of medication for too long and I ended up going the other way- too high and out of it. I ended up in hospital, and a week or two after i came out, I plummeted downhill again in a brutal relapse. During the time I seemed to be recovering, I fell really hard for this girl. I couldnt be my old self around her, and I'm convinced she got the wrong impression of me. I still think about her, and hope that I can show her the real me one day. It's now 3 years later and again I'm trying to get back on my feet. I still have not had a proper relationship. Before the relapse I went to see a medium/psychic because I was just desperate. I know I sound gullable but I needed every glimmer of hope I could get. Apparently I was supposed to be meeting alot of women and hooking up sexually and relationship wise in the next 2 years including with the girl i mentioned. But none of that came, my relapse was right around the corner. This crushed me even more. I feel like I'm missing out on so much. Other people my age are out there having a ball. I have some of that confidence I had back now, but I've got no clue what to do with it. I love women with a passion and I want to experience them in every way. This is a world that I want to explore. Thanx Alot. Josh

Hey swinggcat..this I am a 18 year old male who used to be largely unsuccessful in the field of dating. There are many reasons why I want this audio course. For one, I'm absolutely in love with the material. I've gotten your ebook "Real World Seduction", and have tried to apply what I've learned..in so far, I'm getting positive results (I'm actually going to send you a success story soon, because it's working wonders..lol). I also recieve the interviews with dating guru's..which has so many tips it's ridiculous. My thirst for more knowledge on dating is extremeley high. My hunger to succeed in this field is overbearing at the moment..and I know I can. I used to take girls out so they could spend my money..(leaving me with none, AND no ass at the end), supplicate, tell girls my problems, and so much more..now, I DARE a girl to tell me that I'm like a lil bro..lol, I'm too smart for that now, and I thank you. I know that there is much more to learn on dating, pickups, and all your material..but the main problem for me is that working part time, I can't afford to keep getting your programs the way that I'd want. Your new course sounds amazing..and eventually, I feel like I'd have to get it..lol..but getting thrown a bone would be awesome.. Either way, thank you for everything..your courses, your newsletter, and your drive. You're changing lives, man. b

I want this course desperately because as a fledgling ladies' man living in Mustang, Oklahoma, I am a bit strapped for cash at the moment. I am going out into the field whenever I can, but working 2 jobs makes that kind of difficult. I've always set the precedent of dating only hot chicks, but after my last relationship ended, I realized that I had lost my game. I really want to gain the knowledge from your course and practically apply it. One of my problems with women is that it takes extra effort for me to be flirtatious. I've done it on a few occasions, but it takes a lot of effort. If I won this course, I would be ecstatic. The fact that I just got this email and I'm frantically responding should be enough. lol Anyways I feel that I would benefit from recieving your wonderful course. In addition to that I promise to buy your others when I get my next paycheck. -Frank

Hey Swinggcat, love your newsletters and advice. The reason I want your new course is to finally have the real deal a complete system to get into women's heads and panties, I'm tired of being let down with some of the other guy's seduction B.S., they tell so much in their salesletters and then when you get the product or e-book, it's not congruent to what they promised, but there's something different about you, especially the free articles you send that shows you know a lot about creating attraction. I try my approaches, but I can get real nervous, and so I'm not enjoying going out as much, but I crave being with beautiful women, so I really really want this course so I can finally have some may'be even just a little success with women, thanks for your time. John

In short, I am 41 years old and have never even come close to having sex with a woman. I have tried several other gurus and workshops , and of course I purchased your audio course and have listened to it several times. Over the past two years I have opened several hundred sets with women. The most I got was a kiss. At most they laughed and had a good time but really showed no sexual interest in me whatsoever. I take it all in stride and stay optimistic most of the time, but some Friday or Saturday nights it hits me pretty hard when I realize women who I would love to be with have never been that attracted to me. I probably would not know what to do if a woman did want to have sex – I would be so nervous and shocked. But I really need to figure this out! The funny part is that I work out five times a week, and I am smart and read a ton of stuff. I exercise my mind and body a lot, but when I asked a woman after walking away from me, just for my reference, what is it about me that turns her off so much, she just said I was too short. I am 5'4", but it never bothered me in life till I woke up one morning and realized I am 41 and still a virgin, and that it bothers women that I am short. The other part of this story is that because I do take care of myself and have self-respect, I am not going to sleep with women I am not attracted to. I have always been attracted to younger and more beautiful women - 9's and 10's. There are women who would probably date me that are my age, but I am really not that interested. Maybe it was because I had some nasty acne in high school and college, and never really had a chance to date girls at all. But I would prefer to date girls in their 20’s not 40 +. After going out night after night after taking the Mystery workshop two years ago, I have lately found myself not going out at all. One girl I built a lot of rapport with stood up and realized how short I was and just laughed. Later in the evening she looked at me and said, "Hey, you’re still short!" and started laughing with her friend. And here I am, trying to play it cool, but it just kills me inside sometimes. But when I wake up I know it is a new day, and I usually press on, but lately I have been losing just a little bit of fire. I just want to figure this out once and for all, certainly before I am 50. Thanks for the opportunity - Kenneth

Swinggcat- I am already a walking advertisement for you. I am successful with women and very much a leader with my peers and business associates. Much of my success with the opposite sex has come from your teachings an philosophies. I am always open for learning and self improvement. I believe your course may fill a void not only in my life, but the lives of my friends and collegues. I am anxious to put your new thoughts into practice. My actions reviewed by my friends have led your betterment by increasing sales. What better instrument to sell a product? Thanks for all your help. JD

I want this course because one huge and simple reason: I love women. I love talking to women, I love their behavior and I love that they're so damn hard to understand. This course sure would help me to communicate with girls and help me develop a strong bond and a sexual connection with them. I'm totally intrigued by the course and I'm sure it would amplify my skills with the mysterious female mind - Anonymous

To get the girl I am dreaming of - Thomas

Because I ve reading your metods, and from ohers artist and I think you need to change your point of your view like using more experimental metods for example. I prefer radical metods rather than clasic ones, I prefer to crash to a wall 1000 times and then win only once using someting new rather than using the same classical things because I love to test new skills and not only to have the adrenaline If I´m going to pick up this girl also If these new thing I´m using is effective and how effective it is. This is why I want you to shock me, If you can. And If you send me this audio and I it work like you said, I´ll pay it to you and recomended to my group of pick-up artist which will make you have more sales. By the way, congratulations for the website Santiago, Argentina

I have been learning your stuff for few months now and i feel i'm the only person in Lithuania doing this. I am good looking and girls often starts conversation with me. I am 18 year old and never had a girl because of my lack of self confidence. But now, whne i know secrets about women that you have revealed i am dating a 9 model who is one year older than me. But i find it hard to start having sex with her as i'm still a virgin. I know that i have to make all the moves and should not expect her to do anything. But i feel i know way too less about sex than i should. And that three brains system made me think a lot. It really helped me understand how the attraction work and why is that cocky and funny attitude is so powerful. peace D from Lithuania

I am married but i want to keep my relationship alive. I act every day as if i am meeting her for the first time. That was the behavior she was attracted to in the first place. I carry myself confidently, i am dominant and i let her know in a subtle way that she s one lucky girl to have me. Everything she does i can do better and i am not scared to make fun of her. I am always willing to learn new things to inject new energy into my relationship and keep it unpredictable. I want that free course! Thanx a lot Ivan

Dear Swingcat, I want because I am in the situation of the student you described. Since 1,5 year I try other dating gurus and attend live courses here where I live, in Poland, but it helps nothing. Result: only 1 girl, a friend of my sister, and only because that my sister, as I think, has done the big advertisement/work for me. BTW, this was the second girl in my life (first was my ex-wife...). I do not really believe it will work so well, but Iam excited if it maybe will...