SwinggCat's Sexual Connections Contest

I have to prove to myself and discover that something is more important than my nice face, nice clothes, expencive car or good income - in spite of all of them I have not success enough -I have to learn the inner skills!

I am almost persuaded that I want it. I bought your book on and never really found the time to read it. I have been reading all your newsletters and have edited them down to essential points and have been talking to lots of women about what they want and need in a man and have been told that I am correct about most things but not all. I think they should say nearly all things you told me you have been correct on. The real problem is that it all seems so manipulative and would I really want a woman for a life time if I so "exploited" her? Even now I am sure I do not want to lay umpteen women per week but have the right approach for the one that I consider I really want. This is, regrettably, the only reason why I will buy your new book. I want to be a stud only for the woman I truly want. I guess that rules me out but I will still buy the book.

I want the Sexual Connections audio course, as I believe I am very similar to the student who inspired you to make it, I have spent half a year now reading up on different courses by different people, I even got some books on the subject, but no matter what I do I seem to get nowhere, I can't seem to get enough confidence, as whenever I get some I just get shot down. I am a university student, so should have ample opportunities to test out the ideas in your course. I liked your real world seduction e-book and can see the concepts, but I have trouble setting the frame.

To prove that all the time and effort I have put into reading your many e-mails, has not been a waste of both my time and yours. kind regards, Derek,

Swinggcat, I would really appreciate the Sexual Connections audio course because I'm a starving student w/out a job. I'm only 19 but I have experienced many of the problems that most guys experience when approaching and attracting women. I'm not normally a shy person, but when it comes to women I'm attracted to, I sound like a complete dork. I am only a loser when I interact with women who I find attractive. In fact, I often seduce women who I find unattractive. Eventually, I overcome my fear and I'm able to talk with these beautiful women, but at that point, they aren't attracted to me. Therefore, I succeed in becoming just one of their friends and I'm never ever able to get out of that friendship mode. I'm not really interested in becoming a pick up artist and I don't care much for short term or friends with benefits relationships. All I want is a girlfriend who I could one day make my wife. I think I've found my soulmate, but she doesn't see me as anything more than just one of her friends. I don't know if you've ever experienced this but it's so torturous and depressing that sometimes I've really considered ending my life. Sincerely, Ryan PS. If you can't send me a free audio course for whatever reason, PLEASE give me some advice on how to transform my friend into a girlfriend.

Because honeslty I don't believe ANY course is that powerful. I would like someone for once to shut me up and prove me wrong.

Swinggcat, I'm interested in this course because I love steering the way people think in other areas of life, like sales and decision making. Not to be malicious or self serving so much, it just seems that you can help other people this way some times, it's for their own good! The Sexual communications is an anomaly though; It seems there are many more hidden filters people close for social, and maybe even biological reasons, to resist their own sexual instincts. Puzzle

Hi swingcat, how are you doing? I just wanted to say thanks for helping me out by letting me try your course, you probably don't remember me but you've completly changed the way I see interactions with women, I went from being a total AFC with no sex life whats so ever^^ to a decent gentleman with decent success. Yup remember me the french guy who lives near the mediteranneen sea?Here girls are so cute, guys like me use to be very frustrated :-( anyways since i've tried out your course I've been seeing that women look at me differently, the proof is I've been out with 2 girls in 2 months (as opposed to 2 girls in my life time lol), your stuff is really a state of the art material, they should invent a masters degree just for you and your course^^, but the thing is, even if I'm starting to cut it as a gentleman, I still have many old patterns from being a former AFC, in fact both girls I've been out with, I fell immediatly and helplessly in love(and thus we broke up). Why? maybe i'm stupid for this, i don't know, because unlike many guys I think that although girls that are cute and all get us in all our states that we just want to kiss them, hug them and luckily enough sleep with them ^_^,i think they are also the most amazing things in life, life for me wouldnt have any meaning, no goal, if it werent for girls. Swingcat my name is Gaspard, recently after many troubles i've had, I though to myself what do I want to do with my life, what is my purpose? It took me 24 whole hours to figure out. Life is an adventure and we owe it to ourself to live to the fullest extent, but i go further. Not only do I want to live my life happily but most of all I want to share my adventures with the people i love, I want to make all girls adventurous and make them have the best possible time of their life with me, I want them to feel alive again, not trapped with some boring rich guy cheating on her with every slut he finds. I wish that every single interactions that I have with all the girls I will meet in my entire life will be not just great, but extraordinary whenever I feel like it, so that they and I might share incredible experiences with them and have the time of our lives. I don't know what you think Swingcat, but I do know this is why I want the sexual connections audio course, because if it really can get me (and i beleive it does) closer to my purpose in life then you've not only made one person truly happy but many many people as well. Yours truly Gaspard .fr ,:-) all of what I say is no cheap stuff, I really think it all) thanks for taking part of your time to reading this long message hope it inspire you for more^^cya ^^

i have a whole lot of confidence and have read numerous articles and books on seducing women but I still am not successful. I need this sexual connections audio course to drastically improve my GAME!!!

Swingcat, I'm a 52 year old guy who has been married for the past 12 years. I was out of practice, not confident and feeling over the hill... then... entered Swingcat. I listened to your stuff and I heard a guy explain things I had recognized before but did not understand this info could be catagorized and effective with +90% of the female population. This excited me! Immediately I started to practice what you teach and I am perfecting my skills daily. It's great to realize you do not know it all and there are those who know how to get the job done and are willing to teach. Thanks man.... My confidence is coming back on a daily basis and I feel I'm going to strike the mother lode sooner than later! I am a guy who never had any problems getting laid. I will say I have worked my magic by not really knowing lntellectually what I was doing. It just worked. I want to have a copy of your course because you are like my little on the shoulder dating coach whispering (sometimes yelling) prizability, Prizability, PRIZABILITY into my ear. It works because I now have women completely off balance and I am in control. I have listened to your Foundations for generating Attraction series until I have the material memorized. One woman wrote a blog about her experience with me and how I was in complete control of her. Cool HUH? Who said an old dog can't learn new tricks. I now want to get your new course so I can get the so called untouchables to do my bidding and for them to write a blog about that! You know the kind of female I'm talking about. She's the woman every guy wishes he was with but are too afraid to to approach much less bone her. I guess you can say I want the finer things in life. HEHEHE....... I want what I want and not to ever settle for anything less. This material makes you powerful with the ladies and they love it! Take into consideration I am broke and I need to save my cash... So I can afford to practice safe sex. I'm just a poor old dumb Georgia boy with Swing cat in my ear. LOL. Later, S.S. Georgia PS- I'm never going to marry again. So this will be more ammo for my gun.

hi, now, why i want this course? well, one of the answers is - i wanna get better with women. but really, i you say this course is so powerful and you don't need much memorisation, then it would probably seem as you're a natural and what you'd be doing is completly natural. one of the reasons is that i haven't ever hold hands or kissed a girl. No girlfriend. Now, i don't wanna be like this forever. I'm from Slovenia, a country with popoulation of 2 million people, i'm living in village and the nearest town is 30 km away. there i find so rarely a woman who i could consider really hot. It would take really a lot of time to get good with women of such caliber, i usually have to look for them for about 30 min when i come in town in bar or club. it's easier for you, because you live in USA, where you have tons of women. when i go in a bar, there are usually max 3 beautiful women, 2 of them with boyfriends (it's not an excuse not to approach them, but i just don't have yet the skills to overtake them) and then it leaves me 1 woman in 1 bar. how am i suppouse to get better with such ratio? if you say that your new techniqe is so good, it would give me a tremendeous improvement in my game and also satisfaction and happyness. That's my answer why i want your new audio course. my

Dude, I've been trying everything and while i can now talk to girls it still isn't working. There are only two systems that i feel comfortable following. Yours and Vin Carlo's. With everyone elses systems i just find myself getting built up and then shut down. I fought my way through depression with the promise of something better on the other side, but i'm yet to find it. I KNOW your course would lead me to the real scenario. I live in New Zealand and its a fairly untapped resource. I need your guidance.

I want the Sexual Communication course to garner an idea of how to sexually communicate with women.

im jst a teenager with little success my friends often make jokes at me and when we are out drinking i often make a fool out of myself trying to get girls and theres one girl who im going on holiday with with the school (im still in school) who I reely like and I tryed to pull her while i was drunk and all my friends made fun off me and i want to prove them all wrong but more so i want to be with this girl. also i havnt foun youre emails very useful so far so heers a chance to redeem yourself lol

I want the Sexual Connections audio course because... -TRUTH BOOTH- #1. I've been hurt by too many women in the past, I've made horrendous mistakes...mistakes that I fully regret till this day. A lot of times I feel a little timid when I think of calling a girl, but...I've been overcoming some fears of seeing the bad because every now and then I think to myself "you know what, I'm a grown man, I can handle myself very well." But what really hurt me the most was living with the female roommate who did me terribly wrong, and that's shocked my confidence BIG TIME. Ask any divorced man what it felt like to be divorced, and I felt like 5X worse, if not 10X. A very fucked up situation. #2. I aim to stay on the right path this year. It's only been 4 months, and I've seen some progress with my life. Although I'm not completely happy, because I'm trying to situate myself in a tough economic situation, going to college at the same time...sometimes I feel like I come across a small obstacle...it's like, when a woman fails to respond, I get ticked off easily, even though I TRY my best not to show it. Sometimes I think a little too hard or something, I don't know. So yes! I'm willing and able to learn, I've been keeping myself plugged with your courses and e-mail's, and they've helped me a little. Even my disrespectful "friend" (who I just shut out recently) admitted that I've "stepped my game up." If this isn't enough to tell you how much deserving I am of your newest material, I might as well write a whole fuckin' novel! lol Anyway I think you get my point. If I don't win, I won't take it personal, I'll still keep you as a good mentor--I promise! Rick