Making A Woman Feel Comfortable vs. Creating Attraction

While talkin' to a woman many a man has felt a yen from deep within his groin to lean over and kiss her.

After a whole night dithering around, constantly asking her if she feels uncomfortable, he musters up a smidgen of courage and stutters the words, “Can I kiss you?”

Does asking a woman if she feels uncomfortable, when you're the one shaking like a chicken, put her at ease?

When you're scared to kiss a woman, does asking permission to kiss her, lessen your chances of rejection?

Some might think so.

But here's the lurid truth (with few exceptions)…

Asking these questions gives off an air of awkwardness so thick, she's bound to feel it creeping and crawling along the surface of her skin. It's a surefire way to churn a woman's stomach. And the wrong road to stroll down if you're aspiring to become intimate with her.

Here's the big trick to making women feel comfortable getting intimate with you…

If You Want Her To Feel Comfortable Getting Intimate With You, You've Gotta Feel Comfortable Getting Intimate With Her First!

Emotional states are contagious. If you're at ease she'll start feeling at ease.

But you've gotta take the lead and go first. If she's nervous don't wait until she's relaxed to start feeling comfortable. Feel comfortable right away, and you'll fry her nervousness into cinders.

In this letter I'm gonna share with you three secrets to feeling comfortable getting intimate with women.

Do whatever you've gotta do to learn and use these secrets. If you have to, scrawl them across your forehead in permanent read ink so every time you look in the mirror or catch a glimpse of your reflection, you're reminded of them.


If you master these secrets along with a few other easy-to-learn skills, you'll find yourself getting intimate with women you used to think were impossible to even kiss.

Secret # 1: Make Five Female Friends…

I'm not talkin' about just any women. I'm suggesting that you make five female friends who fit the profile of the type of woman you'd like to attract and become intimate with. Don't hit on them. Just be friends with them.

This will make you infinitely more comfortable around women. And, as I've already mentioned, if you feel comfortable around women, they'll feel comfortable around you. This, alone, makes getting intimate with women exponentially easier.

Plus… here are a few other benefits to making five female friends…

a) Just being out at a public place with female friends can make you more attractive to women. Women are hardwired to feel attraction toward men who get attention from other attractive women. If a woman spots an attractive female giving you attention, she'll probably think: “He must have something I want.”

b) Chances are… they've got attractive friends that you'll get the opportunity to meet. And, if they like you, they'll put in a good word.

Secret # 2: Assume Your Desired Outcome In Advance…

Desire in the absence of belief is neediness – and neediness makes others feel nervous and uncomfortable. If, for example, you want to get jiggy with a woman but lack the belief that her feelings are mutual, she'll sense your neediness and, thus, feel uncomfortable.

But if you've developed a strong intent – if you possess the beliefs to back up your desired outcome – she'll feel comfortable with the idea of becoming intimate with you.

One of the best ways of developing a strong intent is to assume your desired outcome in advance. Before taking a crack at getting physical with a woman, visualize her responding with lust and passion to you making a move on her.

But in all fairness, my friend, this is only a short letter, and I've barely scratched the surface of the tools for developing the beliefs you need to have a strong intent with women.

Inside my audio program you'll get your hands on heaps of tools and skills for developing the necessary belief system for attracting and getting intimate with the women desire.

Secret # 3: Push Your Social Comfort Threshold...

We've all got different thresholds for social discomfort.

Maybe you're someone who's comfortable flirting and joking around with women inside your immediate social circle but the thought of approaching a woman you've never met puts the fear of God in you.

Perhaps it's a breeze approaching women but getting intimate with them scares you to death.

I dunno?

But I'm willing to bet that what's socially comfortable for you now, used to be uncomfortable and difficult.

Yet at certain point, you forced yourself - or were forced - to expand your comfort zone: To try something new.

The more you did it, the more comfortable it became. Likewise, the more you do something that currently makes you feel uncomfortable, the more comfortable it'll become.

But here's the problem…

We all have a natural tendency to want to stay within our comfort zone.

To expand your comfort zone you have to fight the temptation to stay within it and force yourself into situations that make you feel a bit uneasy.

When wanting to make a move on a woman, most men look more stunned and helpless than a gazelle on the Serengeti being mauled to shreds by a lion.


Because they lack the experience. They haven't tried to get intimate with many women.

The solution? Attempt to get intimate with women as much as possible.

Even if a billion thoughts snake into your noggin, like “I'm not sure she's attracted to me yet,” or “What if I'm not her type?” or “I haven't known her long enough to make a move,” go in for the kill.

You'd be surprised. More often than not, even if a woman isn't showing a morsel of attraction for you, she's still open to getting intimate with you.

Plus… this exercise will cull any nervousness about getting intimate with a woman out of your reality for good.

With experience, you'll become comfortable getting intimate with a new woman… and as a result, she'll feel comfortable as well.

While making women feel comfortable getting intimate with you is a huge piece to the puzzle, it's only a piece.

If you don't possess the skills and tools to attracting and getting intimate with the women you desire, then making women feel comfortable, alone, won't get you far.

But here's the good news...

I've put together an audio course where I spoon-feed you step-by-step the specific tools you need to generate massive attraction in the women you desire, emotionally compelling them to see you as a Prize they'll do whatever it takes to win over.

These are skills I had to go out and labor for many long hours to discover on my own. You get to skip that stage because I've done all the grunt work for you.

You'll get a complete education on attracting women where many men just like you have been successfully mastering the exact steps to consistently approach, engage, attract, and become intimate with the women they desire.

I'm so confident that you're absolutely going to love my course that I've made the crazy decision to take all the risk and let you test drive the entire course free of charge.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Push your comfort zone this very moment and start succeeding with the women you want by getting your hands on a copy of my course. You'll be glad you did.

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Your Loyal Dating Coach,



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