The Key To Attracting Women When They're With Friends

Important note: In this letter, my friend, I'm going to share with you something I taught a few of the most renowned ladies' men in the world years ago. It is so effective that after all these years many of them still use it.

A few of these guys make their living taking men out to bars and teaching them how to attract women. They teach their students this material because it works so well.

But there's more…

A buddy of mine Neil Strauss published a book called “The Game” that takes the reader on his journey from a dilapidated gimp to a certified pimp with da ladies. The book is now a bestseller.

Neil has made several television appearances where he's demonstrated the material I'm going to teach you. A friend mine told me that Neil recently shared this material in Men's Fitness magazine – it's that good!

But I'm mad as hell with Neil and all the other guys sharing with the world the material I taught them. I'm so angry my mouth is foaming and my hands are jittering as I write this.

But not for the reasons you're thinking. In a minute I'll tell you why I'm so irate with everyone.

But first…

I want to bring to your attention an obstacle almost every guy slogging through the single scene trenches is forced to deal with – whether they're aware of it or not.

Attractive women rarely – if ever – hit the town by themselves. They're almost always with their friends.

And if you aren't privy to the right way to approach a woman when she's with her friends, succeeding with her is an uphill battle. Not to mention, downright frightening.

I can still remember, like yesterday, spotting an attractive woman in a bar and thinking… Damn she's hot!

But then I'd notice that she was smack in the middle of a small crowd of people. To make it worse, she was talking, laughing, teasing, and joking around with these people. They were her friends. If I wanted to talk to her I'd have to infiltrate her social circle.

The idea of approaching a group of strangers petrified me. The fear, it was the feeling of a long nail tap, tap, tapping into the center of my heart.

Feel me brother?!

The problem was…

Just like many other men, I didn't know how to approach women with friends in tow.

Similar to a lot of other guys, I'd patiently lurk on the sidelines, waiting for her to use the bathroom or smoke a cigarette on the patio. Then, if she was alone, I'd strike like a hungry wolf.

But then… her friends would come find her… and I'd have deal with them.

I've seen guys walk straight up to the girl they desire while ignoring her friends.

But…

If you aren't part of her social circle, here's what almost always happens…

With the imperative of salmon swimming up river, her friends snatch her away from you and whisk her off into the dark night, never to be seen again.

Whether a girl is with one friend or twenty, if you aren't part of her social circle her friends will drag her away from you.

This is why many dating experts advise against meeting women in bars and night clubs.

They suggest meeting women through mutual friends, a common social circle, or a recreational activity.

And in complete fairness… you could meet a boatload of women through taking up ballet or knitting.

But how boring!

I don't know about you, but I have better things to do with my time than knitting a scarf while wearing a pink tutu.

What many of these dating experts don't tell you is that there are secrets to penetrating a woman's social circle in under a minute.

Okay… here's one of my favorite ways to infiltrate a woman's social circle…

Ask the group for their opinion on something

Remember… you're not asking one or two of the girls in the group their opinion on something… you are asking the whole group.

If you do this right you'll engage the whole group in conversation, ensuing in you becoming part of her social circle.

Some men have taken a tragic swing at this by asking a group of women a yes or no question.

The problem is…

After you've asked them the question, the interaction withers away. In other words, the old “Do you guys come here often?” line isn't gonna cut it.

It needs to be something open-ended. Something that keeps them engaged.

Another piece: if your opener lowers the energy of the group, the girls will have less fun than before you joined them, and, inevitably they'll find some reason to slink away from you.

So… use an opinion opener that boosts the energy level of the group.

When I use an opinion opener, I don't ask women a droning question. Instead I turn the opinion opener into a dramatized event or activity. I suck them into my reality.

What if one of the girls looks away from you as you're speaking... or conveys that she's bored to death by your opinion opener?

A lot of guys stop talking, give up, or walk away. Don't do this. It's the kiss of death.

As long as one girl out of the group is paying attention to you, KEEP TALKING.

Most likely... her friends will infer that you must be worth listening to because she's listening to you. And before you know it, everyone in the group will be participating in your opinion opener.

One of my favorite opinion openers to use I call The 80's Dogs opener. This is the opinion opener many ladies' men have been using. This is the one that Neil Strauss demonstrated on national television.

I shared this opener with Neil and others when I first came up with it several years ago. Since then, they've been teaching this opener to others – probably because they got great results using it.

But here's the predicament…

They've been teaching an outdated prototype of The 80's Dogs opener. This makes me mad because this opener has improved by leaps and bounds since I first came up with it… and is at least twice as effective as its earlier prototype.

Here's the new version of The 80's Dogs opener…

“Hey girls… I want your opinion on something… My neighbor just got a baby boy Pug dog and a baby girl Wiener dog… and she wants to name them after an eighties or nineties pop duet or couple… and whoever comes up with the best name in my neighborhood she's giving a thousand dollars to… So if you guys give me a good name, I'll give you fifty of the thousand dollars.”

If the girls demand more money, say, “Damn! You guys are great business women… I'm upping your commission to fifty one dollars.”

Then insist the group give you names of couples that look like a male Pug dog and female Wiener dog.

Making a group of women think of celebrities who look like animals is a surefire way to add fun and energy to their social circle. Think about it!

If they have trouble coming up with names, get them started with something like: “How ‘bout Sonny and Cher? Sonny looks like a Pug dog and Cher looks like a Weiner dog.”

If they agree with your suggestion, say, “That will never work because Sony and Share are from the 70s… how ‘bout Prince and Apollonia?

If they say, “yeah yeah,” spit back, “That won't work either because Prince looks too much like a Chihuahua .”

Be creative and add your own twist to the game.

Remember: If you add more energy and fun to the group, you'll become part of it.

Maybe you're worrying that one day this opener and others like it will become over exposed? Maybe you're fretting that if every guy and his sister's turtle are using this opener it will no longer work?

This is a valid concern. Every so often, I hear guys I've never met using my openers in bars and clubs.

But for now I think you're safe.

This, however, could change in the near future.

There might come a time when every time you use one of these openers women hiss, “I've already heard that seven times. Don't you have something original to say?”

But that's okay… because if you have the resources to come up with your own openers, you never have to worry about an opener getting over exposed. You can just invent a new one out of thin air. A better one. One catered to your own unique personality.

That's why I've put together a course where I teach you the secrets to generating your very own openers. Openers that suck groups of women right into your reality, making you the center of their social circle.

But that's only part of what you'll learn. Inside you'll get your hands on secrets for succeeding at every step of the attraction game: from approaching women to engaging them to attracting them to becoming sexually intimate with them.

Fact # 1: Some of the most famous ladies's on the planet use my material.

Fact # 2: Thousands of men have catapulted their success with women by studying my material.

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Your Loyal Dating Coach,

 

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